Day 18 - Blue balled again

I get an email from Printer that the girl from http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/07/day-3-teaser-got-teased.html wants to meet up with me.

If you recall, she wouldn't give me her number after we did everything but have sex in the club. Since I had no way of contacting her, it was a good feeling to know that she had regrets about blowing me off.

Since I am trying to improve myself, I had analyzed my actions of the evening to determine where I went wrong. I chalked it up to being too eager, not teasing enough, not leading the situations, not doing enough take-aways and not running jealousy routines when she was playing hard to get. Sinn thought it was just because I escalated too much in the club which is a proven deterrent to hookup success.

Before I go out, my ex that I stayed the night with last night calls and wants me to come over again. We had a great time last night so I am tempted but I don't want to start dating her regularly again so I tell her I have to work late.

I grab a work out, shower and head out to meet up with the boys.

I show up at the club and Asian is immediately all over me. Instead of eagerly jumping all over her, I plan on playing the game right tonight. I take her away from her friend and our group of guys to another area of the club. We get into comfort talk for about 30 minutes. She is very sexually amped up to be with me and keeps rubbing on me and kissing me. I respond with small kisses in return but don't escalate.

After we get to know each other better, I bounce back to the boys with Asian in tow. Her and I are steadily getting more and more frisky but I am making sure not to escalate beyond making out this time. Several times she goes to undo my pants and I always stop her.

The night progresses with Asian and I all over each other. She would occasionally go dance with her friend and when she did, Printer and I would go work the crowd so that they saw us talking to girls when they came back.

Anytime Asian started taking that I was with her for granted, I would do a take-away and go talk to Capt Jack, Printer or Sinn depending on who was around.

One funny moment: I did a take-away and Asian left while I was talking to the boys. After a while, I decided to start working the room and stopped and talked to several girls. I then headed to the bathroom. The men's room in this club isn't a private one at all. It is big with a bunch of urinals and stalls and there was a long line of guys waiting to piss.

After I was in line for a bit, Asian comes marching into the men's room, yells out my name and says she was following me and watched me talk to a bunch of girls. I said "so" and just shrugged my shoulders. She grabs me for a big makeout right in the bathroom surrounded by guys. They were encouraging us to grab a stall to finish but she pulled away and left anyway.

The night goes on with Asian and I dancing, talking, drinking and making out. I was smart this time and drank nothing but water for the last hour and a half so I didn't have another cop incident I couldn't get out of.

Around 12:30, Capt Jack tells me to get her out of the club and back to my place or I am going to lose the deal. I try to get her to leave with me but she tells me she drove her friend and they want to stay until the bar closes. She swears she will hang out with me afterwards at Printer's house.

At 1:30, I get a booty call from a girl I haven't closed yet. Caller is a cutie and I definitely want to get down with that sometime however, I have Asian hanging all over me and don't want to blow this situation. I confirm again with Asian that we are all going to hang out after the club closes before reluctantly turning down the booty call.

Club closes and Asian can't find her friend. Asian drove so we go out to her vehicle and make out waiting for her friend to show. While in the car, Asian keeps trying to get my pants down. I am pretty confident she wouldn't have resisted but we are directly under a street light with the light shining in on us. She doesn't have tinted windows and I don't want to get arrested so I tell her to wait until later.

We finally call her friend and find out that she is in another vehicle with a guy. Her and the guy were making out earlier but now there is some drama ensuing. Asian and I go to the guy's vehicle, crawl in the back seat and continue making out and grinding on each other while the other two discuss whatever it is they are discussing.

Finally, I tell Asian I have to go and ask if she is coming with me. She tells me she has to get her friend back home but wants to see me later. It is now 3am and I have to work in the morning so I tell her anything more tonight is out of the question.

She asks for my number and I give it to her this time. She says she wants to hang out tomorrow night (Thursday) but I am non-commital as I already have a date lined up. I tell her to call me and we will figure it out.

I walk her and her friend back to their car and then start walking to mine. I see Sinn and Capt Jack who are making fun of me for failing to pull Asian again. I even got an "I told you so" from Capt Jack. Bastards! =)

I know I played the game by the text book this time. Comfort, take-aways, jealousy, teasing, amping her buying temperature without escalating too much, telling her what I would do to her if we were alone, etc. However, logistics, the bane of all PUAS, got me.

And here I was hoping to start August off right....