Day 31 - No more tease

During the day, I play text war with several girls and set up a date with Asian tease for later in the week and a date for Wednesday night happy hour. I also make plans to spend Saturday night in south Texas with my sweetie down there. We are having withdrawals from each other after spending almost a week together last week....

I go home, grab a quick nap and then a get a text from the girl I was out with last night. She wants me to swing by and visit her on her work break.

I shower, head out, grab some Chick-Fil-A for us and then hang out with this latest chica while she is on break. She is more reserved in front of her coworkers than she was last night understandably but does give me a nice good bye hug and a kiss.

I then head out to a hotel bar in Dallas that is hosting this big party. I have myself and two buddies on the guest list but one buddy flakes and the other put himself on the list too. Sinn calls and I tell him he and Capt Jack can take my friend's places on the list and we make plans to meet in front of the hotel.

Normally there is traffic due to some construction on the way there so I leave a little early. However, I don't run into any slow traffic so I arrive early. I stand outside for a while before the heat starts to get to me. I tell the door guy my two buddies are coming and he says all they have to do is give him their names and he will let them in. I tell them I am going to switch names to Sinn and CJ and he says I can't do that. However, he is not checking IDs to see if your name matches the name on the list so I text the boys their new "names" to get past the door guy and head into the air conditioning.

My buddy that put his name on the list, my usual wing, is in the club already. He is very, very good at meeting people and has already gotten the names of most of the bartendars so he walks me around and introduces me to them all. One of them puts me on some special VIP list to get in during events.

He then brings me over to a group of 3 girls he opened earlier. One is average, one is hot and one is SMOKING! He introduces me and instantly the Smoking one comes over and shakes my hand and then continues to hold my hand while she obviously flirts with me. It is rare that such an attractive girl is so forward with me so fast.

We are just getting into some comfort talk - still holding hands - when Sinn and CJ start texting me that they are having trouble getting in. I reluctantly leave my girl to go help them when I get a text that they made it in. I go back to SMOKING but these two old guys have grabbed her to get their picture taken with her. As she is occupied, I decide to wander the bar and reopen her later.

Sinn and CJ come up and say hi. I chat for a bit but have to use the bathroom. I start heading that way with my Wing when low and behold, I run into the HOT blonde from Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: "Bitchy" and her fiance.

She is looking hot as ever if not a little too thin. After I ran into her at the strip club a couple of months ago, we hung out one day. She told me she has always had a crush on me but is still trying to work things out with her fiance.

I asked her how things are going with him and she said still not good. I can tell it is taking a toll on her. She looks down in the dumps.

Her and I end up talking while my wing distracts the fiance. She asks if I have a girlfriend and I tell her no. She says "good" while giving me puppy dog eyes. I don't get why this girl likes me so as I was always intimidated by her so never really flirted or gave any indication that I was into her.

I talk to her for as long as my bladder can take it and then excuse myself.

I find the boys and CJ tells me that he saw Asian tease out on the patio earlier. I ask where so I can avoid her. Its not that I don't want to see her, its just that when her and I are together, everyone else is shut out and I want to hang out with the guys and flirt with more girls before getting sucked into that vortex.

I meander through the crowd again and try to open some sets. I open this gorgeous, petite Asian girl in a turquoise dress. Rarely have I been shot down so hard. Right in the middle of me starting to talk to her, she says "no" forcefully and turns and walks away. Yikes!

I wander some more and open some random girls. I then find the girl from "Bitchy" again and hang with her and her fiance. As I am talking to her, I see Asian tease in the background. I motion for her to come over but she walks off.

I later leave Bitchy and run into Asian tease and her friend again. Tease is a little stand off ish. I later ask her why and she says she was watching me hit on Bitchy for a while from the distance and it upset her.

She gets over it eventually and we start our usualy making out / grope session. Her friend wants to dance so I ditch them while they hit the dance floor. I like to dance but it is way too warm in the club and I don't feel like being a sweat ball.

I go back to Asian tease and her friend. While we are talking, Bitchy and her friends come stand near us. Every time I would glance up, I would catch Bitchy looking at me talking to Asian tease. I winked at her a few times and she smiled back.

I eventually decide to merge sets and bring Asian tease and her friend into Bitchy's group and then talked to Bitchy some more. As I am talking to Bitchy with my arm around her, Asian tease is glaring at me.

It was like running double jealousy routines. I was loving it!

Jump ahead to 1am. I am tired from lack of sleep the last few nights and the club is very warm making it is time for Twitchy to get home. I tell Asian tease that I enjoyed seeing her but that I am out. She says she wants to leave too and asks her friend if she is ready. Friend is having fun flirting and dancing and wants to stay. I ask if Tease wants to come home with me and she agrees.

We get back to my place for the first time we have ever been completely alone. She is a little standoffish so I don't make any moves and instead offer her some water. She brings up the fact that she saw my flirting all night with Bitchy and it upset her. I ask if it made her jealous and she says yes. I laugh at her and tell her it was payback for teasing me so much. She hits me and then loosens up with me. We are standing and talking in my kitchen which leads to a make out which leads to her undoing my pants.

I pull her into my bedroom and get her clothes off and go down on her. She then tells me she wants to return the favor but I stay on top of her kissing all over her as last time she gave me a blow job I didn't finish and as tired as I was, didn't think I was going to be quick this time either.

She gets my clothes off of me and then asks if I want her. I tell her yes but that we are not going to have sex tonight. She questions why not and I tell her because she has been such a tease, I can tell she is not ready for me and probably couldn't handle me.

My strategy worked! She goes crazy kissing all over me, moaning and asking me to take her. I keep teasing her and telling her she can try all she wants but I am not going to sleep with her.

This goes on for a while until she of course "convinces" me to fuck her. We go at it for a while until her friend, who was her ride, started blowing up my phone wanting to come pick Tease up from my house.

I walk her out to friend's car and she tells me that it is now all in my hands as to when we will go out again and she looks forward to my call.

So, finally, on my 4th time getting hot and heavy with her, I finally have sex with her. Now, anybody would find this girl attractive but she is not so hot as to have it take this long. There are always exceptions to all rules and people always have different stuff they are dealing with in their lives but this was a hard won victory. I definitely need to step up my game.

Below is the progression of our time together. Besides meeting up these times, we had several phone conversations and many text exchanges:

Day 1: Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Day 3 - The Teaser got Teased

Day 2: Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Day 18 - Blue balled again

Day 3: Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Day 19 - Finish What You Started

Day 4: This post