LR: Is this really happening to me?

I haven't been posting much lately. Its mostly due to this very demanding project I recently got put on. It's not that I haven't been going out. It's just that my choices are 1) work my ass off, go out and have fun and then post about it - OR - 2) work my ass off, go out and have fun and then sleep. Sleep has been winning.


So Friday, I have this big deadline at work that I have been preparing for over the last 2 weeks. After it was over, I went to happy hour with a good buddy where I opened 3 very HOT girls and got the numbers from 2 of them.


Then, after a few drinks were in me, pure exhaustion set in after running 100 mph the last couple of weeks. I rolled home and could barely keep my eyes open and decided to stay in - blowing off a couple of PUA guys I had plans with in the process. Sorry guys!

I did make a booty call out to a girl I see off and on who knows the week I have had. She comes over, services me and leaves. I am now fully relaxed and ready for bed. Can't beat that.

Saturday I was still tired so I napped and then decided to stay in again and relax. I was about to make another booty call to a different girl around 11pm when my buddy Vodka calls me and wants to go out. His live in girlfriend and he had a big fight and he feels like getting drunk. Game on!

We role into this bar that I knew was having a special event. Great choice! Rarely have I seen so many hot women in one place.

After a few drinks, I was waiting at the bar and the ditsy bartendar, who was probably drunk, passes me up 3 different times as she methodologically worked her way from one end of the bar to the other helping customers. She was about to pass me up for a 4th time when I grab her arm and let her know she is about to skip me again. Don't get in between me and alcohol!

As I am talking the bartendar, I feel a tug on my shirt but no way am I going to let the bartendar out of my sights so I don't turn around.

The bartender is very apologetic and gives me my round for free. I offer to buy her a shot but she says she has had enough so I grab my bounty (drinks) and turn around to head to Vodka. As I turn around, I see who has grabbed my shirt. I mid 30's, very attractive, Cougar.

One of the big changes I have been doing with my game lately is to open women with questions I really want to get a woman's perspective on. I rarely used can openers anyway and with the popularity of "The Pickup Artist" VH1 show, I don't want to do anything that sets off any red flags with women so I just make up my own.

I have been testing "truths" that are in the community to make sure they are really true. After all, I would rather get advice on women from women than a bunch of guys on internet message boards. Capt Jack has been doing some similar stuff. Check out his blog at http://captainjackpua.blogspot.com/

An opener I have been using a lot lately is to find out what women really think of guys who buy them drinks - either as an opener or shortly after meeting them. The consensus I have gotten from women is that it is a disqualifier unless the guy is "hot". This fits the common pick up community mantra of the opener doesn't matter as long as you open with confidence.

Anyway, I turn to the Cougar and say "you like whiskey?" which is what I was drinking. She says yes, with water. Nice! I turn back to the bartendar and add one more drink to my order. She also gives me this one for free.

I lead Cougar over to Vodka and give him his drink. We pound that one and grab another. And another. I have only met two people in my life that can consistently out drink me - one of the them is Vodka and the other is his best friend. I mention to Cougar that she probably doesn't want to try and keep up with us but she says she can hold her own and pounds a whiskey at every round. She even offers to buy a round for us.

As her buzz sets in, she quickly mentions that she lives way far away, that she came to the bar by herself to meet up with some friends and that if she gets too drunk, she will just crash at my place. Excellent! She answered all of the logistics questions for me without me even asking. As she is distracted, I get the thumbs up from Vodka who has a really hot girlfriend and is very picky. I am into her, have Vodka's approval that she is hot, she is making herself readily available - this is going to be a good night!

I decide it is time to kiss her so I plant on one her. She kisses back and we do mini make out sessions throughout the night. Towards the end of the night, I start to get more dominant with her and grab her hair, pull it so it rocks her neck back, and bit her neck and shoulders. She is into it.

The bar closes and we are all buzzed so I grab the car keys from the valet, say goodbye to Vodka and we hop in taxi back to my place. I don't even ask if she is coming home with me - I just assume it and she goes along with it.

We get to my place and I pour us another drink - not that either of us needed one. I then give her the tour of the place. As with most stages in seduction, if you get derailed at one stage, you most likley failed at an earlier one and not at the current stage (i.e. if you don't get a return phone call after leaving a message with a girl you just met, it is not your phone skills that failed, it is that you didn't generate enough attraction prior to the call).

The same goes with last minute resistance or LMR. If the set up is right, you won't get LMR. I have a very well put together pad and after giving women a tour and going through my routines about my artwork, collectibles, etc, women usually get aggressive with me instead of the other way around. Just another tool in my seduction toolbox. I almost never run into LMR....

I give Cougar my tour and then we start making out. She pulls away from me and does a sexy strip tease for me down to the buff. She then runs into my bedroom and crawls under the covers. Naked chick in my bed!

I run around the apartment and shut off the lights and then join her in bed for some making of sexy time.

I wish I was making the rest of this up....in the middle of the night, with her cuddled up to me, I start to feel something wet on my leg. This jolts me awake and I realize she is starting to wet the bed in her sleep! Fuck! I quickly shake her awake and she stumbles out of bed to the bathroom. Not knowing the place and probably still being drunk, she falls to the floor on top of the clothes that I was wearing and ends up pissing all over them.

I jump up, turn on the lights and help her to the bathroom. She then staggers back to bed and passes out. I, however, am disgusted. I get up, hop in the shower to get the piss off my leg and then go to sleep on the couch.

She wakes up in the morning very hung over. I tell her she had an accident in the middle of the night and she doesn't remember any of it. Or at least claims not to.

This is a first for me. I have never had any girl piss themselves with me before. Not cool.

Cancer and divorce

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070927/ts_nm/cancer_divorce_dc_2;_ylt=AijO5QZzAvd3ugxk1ImaKIQE1vAI

BARCELONA (Reuters) - The risk of divorce increases if one partner suffers from testicular or cervical cancer, but other types have no effect on whether a couple stays together, Norwegian researchers said on Thursday.

With most forms of cancer, the healthy spouse was likely to support his or her partner through the illness, according to the study presented at the European Cancer Conference in Barcelona.
The research compared divorce rates of 215,000 cancer survivors with those among couples free of cancer over a 17-year period.

However, testicular and cervical cancer seemed to lead to a higher chance of marriages breaking up, the study found.

Women with cervical cancer had nearly a 70 percent greater risk of divorce at the age of 20, a level that fell to 19 percent at 60. For testicular cancer, the divorce risk was 34 percent at 20 and 16 percent at 60, it said.

The reason could be because both diseases affect intimacy and result in decreased sexual activity, said Astri Syse of the Norwegian Cancer Registry, who led the study.

The virus that caused cervical cancer was often transmitted by sexual contact and could raise suspicions of infidelity. Age was another possible factor, because both cancers tended to hit people when they were younger and had not yet forged strong bonds, Syse said.

"Sexual problems or a weakening of the emotional rewards from the union are particularly devastating early in a relationship and ... an increased care load is most difficult to accept at an age when illness is most unexpected," she said.

The study found divorce was least likely when the cancer had spread or for types of cancer that had a poor prognosis.

This could be because leaving a sick spouse was seen as socially unacceptable or because an expected death would obviate the need for a divorce, Syse said

Save this dog!

http://dogsindanger.com/dog.jsp?did=1190570011491

Men are happier

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/09/26/the_skinny/main3299143.shtml

"But the gender happiness gap appears long before working life. As "life has generally gotten better over the last generation" -- the Times boldly asserts, using "less crime, longer-living grandparents and much cooler gadgets" as evidence - male high school seniors have gotten happier. About 25 percent say they are satisfied with their lives, up 16 percent from 1976. Meanwhile, only 22 percent of their female peers say they're happy, about the same in the 70s.

I would posit this may have something to do with how dismally bad men's fashion was in 1976. But the experts who talked to the Times chalk it up to the "hottie theory" - the pressure for high school girls to be hot above all else. Back in the 70s, that's all you had to be. Now you have to be a Harvard-bound, track star, volunteering-at-the-homeless-shelter-on-weekends hottie. That's enough to bum anyone out. "

Getting motivated each day

What do you like best about selling? by Geoffrey James

http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=125

Myspace lessons

Myspace can be a great tool for finding dates and I have found it to be an even better tool for managing your relationships.

However, I want to share some lessons that I have recently learned the hard way.

Although having a bunch of hot women as your friends who leave comments for you can help you attract more women (trust me, it does), it will bite you in the arse if you are seriously dating more than one woman at once.

The girls will "mark their territory" by sending comments that show you are dating. And they will wonder why some other girl is higher up on your friends list than they are.

Also, this will eliminate a girl you are dating fishing through your "friends" and finding pictures of you kissing or huggin on anther girl.

So, if you are an active Myspace user, hide your friends and your comments before getting involved with more than one woman. Trust me, it will remove some drama from your life.

Bachelor Pad

I recently updated my bachelor pad post based on the latest lessons I learned.

http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/06/bachelor-pad.html

Psychology Today article on rejection

Thank you for finding this TheRussian...

http://www.psychologytoday.com/rss/pto-20070622-000001.html

Wealth

"The real measure of your wealth is how much you'd be worth if you lost all your money."

-Unknown

Surrounded by rapport

A coincidence? I don't know...but I have seen several articles on how to build rapport over the last few days so I thought I would share the collection.

http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/09/why-the-hell-sh.html

How to Build Instant Rapport:
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=67

The Attitude that Builds Rapport:
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=123

Builde Rapport at first contact:
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=126

How to Build Rapport on the phone:
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=128&tag=nl.e808

Me likey!!!

http://www.carandgarage.com/watch.php?v_id=1037

Quote of the day

"Let us have wine and women, mirth and laughter. Sermons and soda water the day after."

Lord Byron.

The Key to Rapport Building

by Geoffrey James

http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=122

LRs - moving week

This was originailly posted on a forum on May 15, 2007


What a week! I am moving this week and the project I have been working on just launched so saying I had a stressful week is an understatement.

Wednesday night we had a celebratory happy hour at work. Everyone was having a good time and unwinding by pounding drinks.

One of the top 10 hottest girls at work, who I barely know, was there and had a couple of guys gaming her.

I worked my way to her proximity and listened to the guys telling her how beautiful she was, how great she was, etc. It was sickening how much they were sucking up.I

jumped into the conversation right after she made a comment about how wonderful something was that she had done. Instead of complimenting her like the other guys, I blurted loudly "bullshit".

All three turned to me in shock and then the guys quickly turned away from me and tried gaming her again. I was laughing at myself internally for my opening line being the word "bullshit". It just popped out. However, I now had her attention and she demanded to know why I made a comment like that.

We get into conversation and I start slamming on her in a playful way - telling her she was a brat, how I could never take her home to mom, etc. All the while the other guys are telling her how rude I am being, how she doesn't deserve to be treated like that, etc.

She quickly leaves their side and starts hanging with me and giving my kino in the form of punches on the arm. The guys try AMOGing me a few more times but there were also AMOGing each other and both ended up walking away frustrated.

Just then THE hottest girl at work comes in. I smile at her, she smiles back and I make a mental note of where she was and went back to gaming my current target. As happy hour starts winding down, my best buddy at work saunters over. We make plans to invite a select few to another venue to continue the party. He showed an interest in my current girl so I introduced those two and leave to start talking to the HB10.

I know HB10 pretty well but always in a professional way. I use the social venue as an opportunity to start flirting. We have always had good rapport so I am hoping I can turn it into something sexual. She seems receptive so I invite her to bounce with us to a new venue. She agrees.

My buddy and I end up bringing about 15 people with us to a new venue. We both spot a large group in the corner with a smoking hot blonde girl in the center. We decide to open the group with "what are you celebrating?" and plan to try and pawn to the blonde.

It turns out it was a birthday of a guy in the group. We bring our group over to their group and we all sing "happy birthday" to the birthday boy. Since we were the instigators that brought the two groups together, we both noticed a lot of IOIs from the ladies. Unfortunately, the hot blonde was engaged to one of the guys at the table so it didn't go anywhere.

I ended up having a different engaged girl from the new group come on to me and my buddy had a couple of girls open him. Ultimately, we decided to stay with our original targets and we bounced them to yet another venue.

Long story short, my buddy ends up making out with my original girl at the bar and getting her number, I took HB10 home with me as a grand finale to my apartment I am moving out of.

Fortunately for me, HB10 had to fly out early in the morning so I didn't have to run into her awkwardly at work the next day.

Thursday night I get the keys to my new apartment and start moving. I get a call from a girl I met on myspace who I haven't seen in several months. She wants to see me but I tell her I am moving and can't. She offers to come help and happens to own an SUV so I welcome her over.

She busts her ass helping me for 3 hours and then we decide to take a break. We go inside to my old apartment and I pour us some wine. Make out ensues on the couch amid all of the boxes and wreckage. She happens to have Aunt Flo in town so I couldn't escalate too far but she managed to find a way to lick the situation.

How about that? A girl comes to help me move and gives me a BJ as payment?!?!?!

Friday at work, I am sore from moving. Getting old sucks!!! At work, I start flirting with the second hottest girl in the company, an HB9, who used to be a 10 a few years ago in her prime. This girl gets hit on by everybody at the company. I have personally seen the CEO ask her out 3 times.

Anyway, I flirt with her as I always do. This time, she acts all strange. Later, her best friend at work comes over to me and tells me that I should ask her out. I approach her later in the day and tell her a "little birdie" told me to ask you out. She demands to know who told me that and a teasing game ensues.

Eventually, she gets the name of the birdie out of me. I extract myself from the conversation and go back to work. Later, HB9 comes to my seat and asks for my Instant Messager ID. We start IMing and she asks me out for Saturday night. I tell her I can't as I am moving. She tells me that she is tired of me just flirting and that someone had to make the first move. She also mentions that she won't wait around forever.....interesting, I had no idea she was into me other than for just innocent flirting.

Later Friday night, the best friend of one of my ex girlfriends comes into town for a planned visit. She gets in late and we go to a late dinner and then go to my new apt to crash. We are both exhausted so nothing really happens other than a makeout session.

Saturday, the friend of my ex, a HB9, and I spend all day moving. By the end of the day, we are exhausted. We both clean up and head out to the bar and meet up with my buddy from work.

He is on fire and opens no less than 10 girls at the bar and walks away with at least 5 numbers.

The HB9 and I make out all night but every time I leave her to get another drink or hit the head, random guys end up hitting on her. She is definitely one of the hottest girls in the bar. And no one compares to her moves on the dance floor.

Back home, I get her naked for the first time. She then asks me if I have ever slept with her best friend when dated her. I really like this girl and don't want to lie so I tell her the truth - yes. She freezes up and gives me last minute resistance. I don't try to push through it and go to sleep.

The next morning before she leaves back to her home town, we go sit by the pool. She apologizes for not "giving it up" the night before. I tell her it is OK, that I want her to be comfortable before we do anything serious but that she has to be relaxed around me or I won't date her anymore. She says she understands and wants to know when we will see each other again. We make plans.

Sunday, I am moving by myself when my previous #1 girl who I have stopped seeing calls me. She originally decided to not date me anymore because she couldn't stand me living with my hot roommate. She has found random girl's hair in my bed, discovered condoms missing, heard my phone ring in the middle of the night yet she is only jealous of my roommate who I have no physical relationship with. I don't get it.

But anyway, she calls me up and starts yet another fight. I tell her I have to finish moving and hang up. She shows up 30 minutes later and wants to help me move.


It was a funny thing. Here she is, helping me move but still acting angry at me. She wasn't speaking to me and glaring at me every time we passed yet she was carrying box after box to my new place. Too funny!!!

After a bit, she got hot so she took off her outershirt and her bra so she was just wearing a thin white shirt. She used to be a Hooter's girl and a lingerie model and has "huge tracks of land" to quote Monty Python.

Soon, she has attracted the attention of a couple of hispanic guys who are obviously interested in her thin, white, sweaty wet tank top. She angrily confronts me and demands to know why those guys were staring at her. I tell her it is probably because she is winning the wet t-shirt contest as her nipples are definitely exposed. She isn't embarrased at all and says that she is letting it all hang out so that I will be turned on and won't turn her down this time.

-An aside - the second to last time I saw her, we got into a huge fight. I ended up throwing her out of my place. After she was already out and I was slamming the door, she asked if she could come back in for a quicky. I was so angry with her at the moment that I couldn't even dream of touching her. She was still pissed that I turned down sex with her.

The last time I saw her, she came to pick up my very drunk ass when I was out with CJ, Sinn, Fidelio and Second Chance. Unfortunatley, I had one too many Tuaca shots and ended up picking a fight with her over nothing and she left me at the bar to drunkely get home on my own. So, the last two times I have been with her, we haven't had sex.

Anyway, we finish moving and go inside my new place. She mentions that we should take a shower since we are all hot and sweaty. We jump in together and scrub each other clean. We then break in the new apartment and she leaves.

What a week! I can now add "tired" to "stressed" to describe my week. However, it is weeks like this which is the reason we are all in this community.


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Here is a response to a comment about my post

I definitely run Mystery Method and believe that I have a natural Cocky/Funny attitude.

Interestingly, I have a major sticking point when it comes to qualification. I am pretty stoic and not good at expressing my feelings. I am horrible at qualifying women.

I often find this has the effect of blowing up many of my sets. However, some women seem to interpret this lack of emotion as either a challenge or confidence and plow through it. It seems to cause some women to be obsessed with me as I am such a closed book.

I find that women often fish for compliments and validation from me. Since this makes me feel awkward, I usually avoid the conversation with some smart ass remark which just feeds the flame.

As my goal is to find "the one" to eventually marry and start a family, I have a goal to work on this sticking point of mine. I actually told my ex's best friend today that I missed her since she was gone which is a huge step for me. I am not comfortable expressing feelings or showing emotions.

But to directly answer your question, I think what initially gets these women attracted to me is my indifference. Until you are ready to settle down, you should be dating as much as possible.

I love women - how they think, how they act, how they react, etc. Most of my friends are women. I surround myself with females. Many of them gorgeous.

This has a spiraling result of attracting even more women in my life. And trust me, the more women you have in your life, the less shit you are willing to deal with as you are burnt out by it.

Since you have ZERO tolerance for their emotional games, you come across as different and confident. You become the unique guy in their life who doesn't fall into their traps or play their games. They can't help but become attracted to you.

For instance, the HB10 at work. She has the most phenominal body...she wears a size 2 but has natural DD breast and a fun personality. Guys hit on her all the time but more importantly, guys stare at her boobs more often than not when they talk to her.

When I spoke with her the first few times, I held eye contact, I teased her instead of complimenting her, and I was abrubt with her and held to my schedule instead of hers (i.e., when I got the information I needed from her at work, I left as opposed to most guys who stayed and flirted - indifference).

I believe this is hugely attractive to women who get hit on several times a day with the same generic lines over and over.

Morale of the story - be different, don't care about the results of your actions, have someone else lined up to ensure you don't invest too much in any one interaction. And have fun.


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Update: HB10 from work got into town yesterday and sent me a text....."meet me in elevator".

We met up in the elevator for one of the hottest elevator rides I have ever been on. I had a smile on my face the rest of the day at work.

Last night, her and one of her girlfriends were at the airport waiting for their flight which was delayed several hours because of the storms. They called me and were speaking with a british accent.

They had decided to start drinking at the airport bar, speak only with british accents and see how many guys hit on them with the opening line "where are you from?". They called me periodically with updates.

It was hilarious! They were trying to talk british but slurring their words at the same time from the booze.

Moral of the story - We all know that it doesn't matter what you say as long as you open with confidence and good body language. However, take a second to come up with something unique or original so that you stand out from the pack.

EVERY SINGLE guy that talked to them opened them with "so where are you from". EVERY ONE.

LR: Austin Craziness

This is a forum entry orginally posed on Oct 1, 2006.



I had to go down to Austin for work again. Things haven't been going well with my investors and I have had very little sleep so I had planned on having a quiet weekend and catching up on sleep.

Friday for work, I had to be in the downtown area near where a lot of the hotels are. I started chatting up this friendly looking UG who was wearing a conference type badge. She mentions that she works for a company who my previous company was a major competitor with so we have a lot in common.

We had a great conversation and she invites me to crash their conference. They are heading out to Salt Lick (world's best BBQ) on a bus ride from the hotel and its all you can eat and drink.

"All you can drink for free" is one of my favorite phrases and just hearing it made all thoughts of sleep disappear.

She sneaks me onto the bus. Its a typical company event - all stuffy and full of work talk. The UG helps me come up with some facts I needed to blend in which helped me mingle. She is a lot of fun and I am enjoying her company however would never be able to hook up with her.

After the food and lots of drinks, the music starts up and most of the girls head to the dance floor with the guys being wall flowers. I am not going to be on soul train or anything but I can at least feel the beat so I am one of the few guys out on the dance floor shaking it and therefore, popular with the girls and danced with several.

Most of the crowd is of average looks except for two HB9 blondes who were hanging together. One was about 6' and thin, HBTall, and the other had perfect white straight teeth, HBTeeth.

I keep trying to dance with them and talk to them but they are more into dancing with each other to show off for the crowd. Also, neither of them could feel a beat if it was slapping them in the face so it was a bit of a turn off for me.

Instead, Ug has this really cute, tiny little Asian sprite friend she is dancing with. The girl could dance like nobody's business.

One thing not mentioned in the community much is attractiveness vs. sexiness and I would actually go for sexiness over attractiveness anyday.

Anyway, she is probably a 7 or 8 on most people's HB attractiveness scale but with the sexiness factor involved, she was a HB9 or HB10 for me.

I end up sandwiched and dancing between the two of them most of the night. After a lot of dancing and drinking, it is time to hop on a bus to leave. I make sure that Ug and HBSprite are with me and "coincidentally", we end up on the same bus as the two blonde HB9s. Funny how I had to stop into the restroom and they coincidentally caught up with us....

The girls and I sit towards the front. Everyone is rowdy on the bus after drinking all night and there is a group of guys in back really having fun and entertaining the bus. They are of course directing a lot of their attention to the two HB9s who get up in the aisles and start dancing and such.

The bus driver yells that everyone must sit down so I grab HB9Teeth and pull her onto my lap. We talk for a bit and I run Mystery's kiss test. She says "I don't know even know you" which isn't a "no" so I kiss her and we make out a little bit. (Running this test is much easier when fueled by alcohol).

Here is where I screw up - the guys in the back were having so much fun that I kept looking back to see what was going on and therefore, so did she which broke my frame. Eventually, I was AMOG'd by the group as an entity and she left me to go to the back with the guys. Stupid me - I should have kept her center of attention on me. Lesson learned.

I go back to chatting up Ug and HBSprite who are in front of me and we all get to cracking up. I am laying out the Cocky and Funny big time and even end up getting them to stand for a "butt off" to see who had the better ass.

The bus pulls up to the hotel and most everyone gets off. I go ask the bus driver if he will take us to 6th street (the big party street in Austin) and he agrees to take the remainder which is about 15 of us and includes Ug, HBSprite and the two HB9s.

Here is where I become "leader of men". I am the only one who had ever been to Austin so everyone starts following me. I take them to a shot bar so we can all do shots and then roll into a dance club where we all get more shots and then start dancing.

I am dancing with HBSprite a lot when HBTall comes up to me and grabs me away. She isolates me to a corner and said she was watching me dance all night and wondered why I hadn't talked to her. (I had tried many times earlier at the party but she kept getting distracted). S

he is hammered and slurring her words and having trouble walking. She says she likes my shirt and then wraps her arms around me and kisses me. I make out with her a little bit but realize that this is Fool's Mate. I hadn't done anything to "earn" her other than maybe being leader of men.

She is so drunk that I don't feel right doing anything with her so I pawn HBTall off to one of her friends with a recommendation that her friend get her home because she has had enough. Was this a mistake to let her go? I don't know and kind of doubted my decision the next day when I was sober. I could have hung out with her and not taken advantage of her yet set the stage for something later when she was in a better state.

Anyway, Ug and HBSprite and I leave the rest of the group to another dance club. Ug can hold her own and her and I drink too much. When the bars close, Ug offers for me and HBSprite to come back to her hotel suite she is sharing with 2 other girls. We take a bike taxi there.

Here is my last screw up for the night. I remember sitting at a table with Ug, HBSprite and another girl and then I was woken up in the morning by HBSprite shaking me as I was lying in some bed. I don't remember anything in between and all of the girls are mad at me.

It turns out, Ug (who doesn't remember anything either) got up to take a shower. After her shower, she crawled into bed. I crawled in after her and was spooning her and HBSprite was on the other side of me in Ug's bed. Here I am, sleeping between two girls and 1) too drunk to do anything about it and 2) spooning the wrong chick.

I get up in the middle of the night to pee and when I come back, I crawl into bed with another girl who hadn't gone out because she was sick and I pass out. This girl eventually gets pissed and gets out of her bed and sleeps on the couch.

Everyone is mad at me in the morning for making sick girl not get any sleep so I leave the hotel room but offer to take HBSprite back to her hotel. She agrees although she barely talks to me and is very angry.

Instead of driving to her hotel, I drive to mine. She doesn't complain or say anything but is still visibly mad at me. We crawl into my bed and both go back to sleep.I wake her up later with some kisses to the back of the neck, she responds and we seal the deal.

Ug, HBSprite and I hang out the rest of the weekend and go to the lake, see the bats, etc. and HBSprite changes her flight to stay an extra night with me. If she didn't live in Cali, she could be girlfriend material. We really hit it off. Ug is really cool too and would make a great friend if she lived in Texas.

Lessons learned: Talk to everyone including Ugs, keep the frame on me, don't pass up a good opportunity when it presents itself, and quit drinking so much when going out.

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This was my response to a comment about my report.


I love your advice and it reminded me of the most important parts of the weekend. Duh me!

OK, not only was she very sexy to me. She also had been taking strip tease classes for the last year with her girlfriends and had just graduated from the most advanced level. She was eager to show me her moves.....

Also, this chick orgasmed like no other I have been with. It wasn't just multi-orgasms. Her orgasm just kept going on and on as long as I kept playing or fucking. Seriously - like 20 - 30 minutes long her whole body would shake.

I have never experienced anything like it. Lucky girl!

I finally tapped into this and would just play with her until she started to come and then would enter her. It was an amazing feeling haveing sex with her while her body is shaking and she is tightening on me!

I had 5 condoms with me and had to go buy more.

Male chimps woo females with stolen food

http://feeds.bignewsnetwork.com/?sid=281507

While the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, the same may be true for wild female chimpanzees, for a study conducted in West Africa has shown that male chimps steal fruits from local farms and orchards to attract female mates.

"We believe the males may be using crop-raids as a way to advertise their prowess to other group-members, especially the opposite sex. Such daring behaviour certainly seems to be an attractive trait and possessing a sought-after food item, such as papaya, appears to draw even more positive attention from the females," said Dr Kimberley Hockings from the University of Stirling's Department of Psychology, the lead researcher.

The study was carried out in the West African village of Bossou in the Republic of Guinea. According to the researchers, it is the only recorded example of sharing of plant food by unrelated, non-provisioned wild chimpanzees.

"It is unusual behaviour as even though the major part of chimpanzees' diets consists of plant foods, wild plant food sharing (defined as an individual holding a food item but allowing another individual to consume part of that item) occurs infrequently. However, in chimpanzee communities that engage in hunting, meat is frequently used as a 'social tool' for nurturing alliances and social bonds," said Dr. Hockings.

"This research shows that chimpanzees at Bossou use crop-raiding as an opportunity to obtain and share desirable foods, providing further insights into the evolutionary basis of human food sharing. In humans, the pursuit of certain foods is also strongly sex-biased; for example, it has been proposed that men in hunter-gatherer societies acquire large and risky-to-obtain food packages for social strategising and to garner attention," the researcher added.

The study showed that adult males mainly shared the spoils of their crop-raids with females of reproductive age, particularly with a female within the group who took part in most consortships.

"The male who shared the most food with this female engaged in more consortships with her and received more grooming from her than the other males, even the alpha male. Therefore the male chimpanzees appear to be 'showing off' and trading their forbidden fruit for other currencies, i.e. 'food-for-sex and -grooming'," Dr. Hockings said.

The study has been published in open-access journal PLoS One.

Back in Dallas

I am back in town for a few days after traveling to several cities. I just started a kick ass project that will last about a month. Good thing is, I love the project and get to work directly with all of the top executives of the company that hired me. Its always great to be around people who have made it in life.

I have several posts I have started that I need to wrap up - hopefully over the next couple of days before I hit the road again.

I am going to stray away from pick up for a bit and delve into finances, budgeting and a few other subjects.

Hope all is well.....

Cool routine

I went out of town this weekend and went to this happening club a bit early to beat the rush.

Was at the bar ordering me and my girl a drink when I saw this guy next to me taking pictures. The flashes caught my attention.

He was with one girl and her two friends. He fed his girl a cherry and took a picture as she played with it in her mouth and then ate it. He then fed her two friends a cherry and snapped pictures of them too.

Then he took three cherries and held them up for all three girls to go in at once and eat them. The girls all hesitated and eventually backed out of a 3 way kiss. However, I believe this was more to do with it being early and no one really in party mode yet.

Although he had poor execution, I give the guy an 'A' for effort. I later went up to him and told him I loved his routine. He smiled, knuckled me and moved on.

Be the man

I had the opportunity yesterday to have lunch with a recently engaged woman who is second guessing her decision and then go out for drinks in the evening with 2 married women who are very unhappy in their marriage.

All three women had the same thing to say as to why they were unhappy: Their men weren’t men. All three mentioned that they were the “men” in the relationships and they weren’t attracted to their spouses/fiancé anymore because of it.

The engaged woman told me that her fiancé was kind, sweet, would be a great husband and a wonderful father. However, she is the one that makes all of the decisions and he just goes along with them. He chased her for over a year before she finally gave in and started dating him. When he proposed, she was taken completely off guard and almost said no. Instead she said “Are you serious? Are you serious?” several times before he finally just slipped the ring on her finger. She never actually said yes.

She is now trying to rationalize whether she wants to marry him. She said everything is there in the relationship except for passion. All her friends are encouraging her to go through with it because he is such a great guy however she has her doubts as to whether she wants to. She is going to start going to counseling to work out the decision in her mind. And at the end of lunch, she made it perfectly clear that if I wanted her, she was there for the taking.

Last night, I met up with one of the married women first and her friend joined us later. The first one started talking about how unhappy she is, how her husband (who was her high school sweetheart), just doesn’t try anymore. How he is complacent. How he doesn’t make decisions. How he has become boring and predictable in bed. She mentioned that she was considering an affair and mentioned to me how she gets hit on a lot and may take someone up on it.

After we talked a while, her friend, the other married woman, joined us. We small talked for a while and then I bounced them to one bar and then to another.

As we walked into the second bar, a guy yells out to the second woman from across the patio “Hey, are you with him? If not, get over here!” And she did. It turns out, the guy was a tool but she commented later that she was attracted to his confidence.

She then went into all of the ways she is unhappy with her husband. She said she wears the pants in the family, she pays the bills, she makes the decisions and she initiates sex. She has started going out a lot lately leaving her husband to stay in and watch the kids. Not only does he allow this, he encourages it and told her she should get some new clothes so that she doesn’t wear the same thing every time she goes out.

This woman is hot! For her age and having a few kids, she is a 10. Plus she has a fun, spunky attitude. She point blank asked me that if I was her husband, would I encourage her to go out every night. I told her “hell no”. She said that if her husband put his foot down and demanded she stayed in, she would probably be more attracted to him. Instead, he lets her walk all over him. She mentioned that it wasn’t about attention as her husband gives her plenty of that. It was about being dominant. Being a man.

As I walked them back to their car, the first woman started walking beside me and we ended up holding hands. She drove but her friend said that she would drive back, hopped in the driver’s seat and then got on the phone. This left me standing outside the car with the other one. I locked eyes with her and held her stare. I then reached my hand behind her neck, grabbed a large chunk of hair, firmly pulled it down and then stepped in and bit her neck. She moaned and we started making out. I pushed her roughly against her car and pressed my body firmly against hers. She started moaning, clawing my back and biting my lips and neck.

This continued for a while until our hands started to wander, the whole time people are walking by us and her friend is waiting in the car. Knowing she had to get home to her husband and that her friend was patiently waiting on her, I stop us and pull away. We were both worked up and breathing hard by this point. She tells me if her husband ever did that to her, she would never let him leave the bedroom.

Thank you!

My blog hits just hit 5000. I am humbled that so many people stopped by to read my stories, especially when I am not selling or promoting anything. Thank you!

Hilarious article

http://www.theonion.com/content/news/study_casual_sex_only_rewarding?utm_source=onion_rss_daily

"When I think back on the countless times I've had raw, almost bestial sex, indoors or outdoors, with one, sometimes two Asian women whose parents I'll never have to meet, I occasionally get a little down," Pertzborn said. "God, what if I wasted my life having guilt-free, uninhibited, sensually explosive sex with anyone I wanted?"

Synchonizing

It is a scientific fact that women who are in close proximity with each other will synchronize their cycles. Do you think it is possible that a shared man can cause the same effect, even if they have never met each other?

Four of the girls I am seeing are causing me serious drama today out of the blue. One was a little late on her period, one a little early, the other two I am not as knowledgeable of their cycle but net net is that they are all PMSing at the same time. And making my life hell.

Blowing up is sometimes a positive thing

Lately I have been buying tickets to whatever concert, theater show, musical or comedy event interests me and then finding a date later.

I had tickets to a musical in Ft. Worth and call up this hot girl I have been talking to for a while to see if she wants to go. This girl is head turning beautiful and from money but has an attitude to that surpasses her beauty and wealth. I am unsure how hard I want to pursue her because I am from humble roots and this diva shit she puts out really rubs me the wrong way.

However, I know she will appreciate the musical and I want to get to know her better before I make a full impression of her. She agrees to go and we decide to make a day of it. I make tentative plans to get a hotel room in Ft. Worth in case things go well and/or we have too much to drink.

I pick her up, we drive to Ft. Worth and run around Sundance Square for a while. We are holding hands as we walk around and check out the sights.

We grab dinner on an outside patio and people watch everyone walking by. We are having a good time but she is being somewhat of a shit. I can tell this girl is used to guys fawning over her. She likes to get her own way.

Dinner is over and we go watch the musical. It is pretty good but I have seen better. She rests head on my shoulder through much of it and we hold hands and kiss a bit. During any quiet time or break, she takes the opportunity to tell me how better the musical that so and so took her to was and how better a time she could be having if she was doing such and such. I hate name droppers.

After the show, we bounce around to a couple of the bars and listen to some music.

Halfway into my first beer, she starts getting pissy with me. It is not about anything specific, she is just being a diva. I make a joke that 99.9% of the population would find funny however, she decides that it is demeaning. Instead of just rolling with it, she decides to make an issue of my joke.

So I am at a decision point. I can continue to let this girl be a diva who thinks I need to cater to her every whim or I can make a stand. I am the most analytical, robotic person I know. I rarely let emotion control me, usually to a fault. So I make the decision to be emotional to make a point.

I tell her she is disrespectful of me for ruining the nice evening I had planned and being disrespectful of my time. I tell her I don't tolerate this kind of behavior and am going back to Dallas. Instead of apologizing, she makes an even bigger issue of the innocent joke. Diva big time!

I decide to drop a grenade and tell her I am leaving and if she wants a ride back to Dallas, she better come now or she will be left behind and then start walking off. She says that NO ONE walks out on her. I tell her she is about to experienced her first and unless she wants to drop over $100 on a taxi back to Dallas, she better come with me. She hesitates and eventually runs in her high dollar heals to catch up to me as I am leaving the club heading to my car.

She is giving me all kinds of attitude in the car so I pull over to a gas station and tell her she can either drop the attitude or take a taxi from here. She clams up and I continue driving.

She starts dishing shit at me again during the ride so I turn up the music so loud I can't hear her. I am really not the least bit upset about the evening but am instead making a powerplay that her looks and money aren't going to impress me.

We get back to her place and I pull up next to the sidewalk, put the car in park and wait silently for her to get out. She sits there for a while and then starts to argue with me again about how no one has ever treated her this way. I tell her that she is long overdue with the attitude she exudes and to get out of my car because I am tired of wasting my time on her and want to salvage the night.

She sits in silence again and starts to apologize. I tell her she is a very long car ride too late to apologize and to get out. She reluctantly gets out of the car. I text Sinn to find out where he is at and head to Xbar to meet up with Sinn and Capt Jack.

My actions weren't really a gamble. I honestly wouldn't be able to tolerate her attitude. My choices were to let her continue and just never see her again after the night or blow up the evening to see if I can alter her behavior.

Well, my gambit appears to be working so far. She has sent me 3 myspace messages, an email and 4 text messages apologizing and proposing to make it up to me.

We shall see where this goes.

Really, it is OK to date

Friday night I decide to go out with a girl I used to date that I haven't seen in a while. Instead of staying in and having sex or grabbing dinner, I decide to take her to a club and then back to my place. There is a lingerie party at a local club and I try to convince her to wear lingerie but she isn't comfortable doing so. Instead, she wears a tight fitting little dress.

This girl is 35 and for her age, she is looking HOT. She is a size 0 with natural D size breasts. And she is phenomenal in the sack - the best lay I have ever been with, bar none.

We arrive at the club and grab a drink and people watch. As the place fills up, I swear every PUA in Dallas must have made an appearance....Asian Playboy, Printer, El Topo, Shack, Strapper and several others are there.

As my girl and I are being social, we are walking around and saying hi to everyone as I see them.

Everyone was well meaning but I was told at least 5 times to get my girl home before I lose her or given advice on what I should be doing with her. It was kind of funny. I couldn't explain myself in front of my girl so I took the advice in stride.

At least one PUA tried to help me out when they thought I was being AMOGed. I am very appreciative of the help. However, I am 100% confident that she is going home with me so I don't care who talks to her. We were being social and just enjoying being out.

It was good seeing all of the PUAs out and about. A few I hadn't talked to in a while.

I think that the community as a whole is so focused on continually improving their game by learning on set after set, that it is easy to forget that it is OK to date. I actually enjoy getting to know the women I have met better and sleeping with them more than once. The sex gets better and better as you get more comfortable with each other and communicate what pleases you.

Why kissing means more to women

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6975794.stm

If a picture is worth a 1,000 words, so may be a kiss - or certainly to a woman anyway, researchers say.

A New York State University team quizzed over 1,000 students, finding women place a big emphasis on kissing.

They use kissing as a way of assessing the recipient as a potential partner, and later to maintain intimacy and to check the status of a relationship.

But men placed less importance on it, using it to increase the likelihood of sex, Evolutionary Psychology reported.

The questionnaires revealed men were less discriminating when it came to deciding who to kiss or who to have sex with.

They were more willing to have sex with someone without kissing, to have sex with someone they are not attracted to and agree to have sex with someone they considered to be a bad kisser.

But kissing was more important as a bonding mechanism to women.

In long-term relationships females not only rate kissing as more important than men, but they indicated that kissing was important throughout a relationship.

Meanwhile, men placed less importance on kissing as the relationship progresses.
There was also a difference in the sort of kisses the two sexes preferred, with men liking wet, tongue kisses.

Lead researcher Dr Gordon Gallup said kissing had developed over time to become an essential part of the courtship process.

But he added: "While both sexes participate in the adaptive benefits of kissing, we found sex differences when considering the pursuit of short- versus long-term mating strategies."

Dr Glenn Wilson, an expert in relationships at London's Institute of Psychiatry, said: "Kissing is used by everyone as a bonding and testing mechanism.

"But the fact is women are more discriminatory than men. Men can just go out and spread their seed, but women have to take more responsibility because of the consequences and so they are likely to want to test more."