Friday, August 31, 2007

Weirdest lay

OK, I just experienced the weirdest lay of my life....

Head Monster calls me after work and wants to see me. I don't have plans until later so I tell her sure but that I had something going on later. I like to time box my dates to keep my options open, even when I don't have solid plans.

She comes over, we make out at the door as soon as she walks in, she drops to her knees and starts blowing me. Hence her name....

I am worried my roommate might come home so I drag her into the bedroom, waddling like a penguin with pants around my ankles.

She starts up again and while she is going to town, I try to play with her breasts. She won't let me. I stop the BJ, push her onto the bed and start kissing on her tummy while trying to undo her pants. She won't let me.

She starts blowing me again. I stop her and try to get her undressed. She won't let me and starts blowing me again. This sequence happens several times.

I am thoroughly enjoying the BJs but really want to see her naked since I never have. Since she keeps stopping me from even feeling her breasts through her shirt, I get frustrated and tell her we are stopping.

She tells me she is worried about me touching her as she will get too turned on and will want to sleep with me. I tell her I just want to play - no sex. She still won't let me.

She tries to go down on me again and I decide to shut her out. I pull away and do my best to pull my pants up with Lil Twitch standing at attention.

She is upset that I am stopping her and tells me she just wants to please me. I tell her she is not playing fair so we are stopping. She then goes to her purse, pulls out a condom, pulls down my pants and puts it on me. She then starts blowing me again to get me fully hard.

I tell her to stop but she keeps going. I force her head off of me. At this point, she is so reluctant to let me touch her that I am starting to worry if she is a tranny or a man or something. I look very closely for an adam's apple....

She sees me acting funny and asks what is wrong. At this point my heart is racing and I have all of these horrible thoughts about what I am going to do to her/him is she truly is a guy. I accuse her of being sneaky and hiding something. She tells me she has nothing to hide. I tell her she is acting too weird and that she should probably just go home.

Head Monster then tells me she is just worried that we will sleep together because she gets too turned on. She says she wants to sleep with me but worried that I am too big for her (she is a tiny girl). I tell her that I am no John Holmes and that there shouldn't be a problem. She doesn't know who John Holmes is so I change subject vs. trying to explain it. She tells me she has never been with anyone as big as me (just telling it as it happened) and that she is scared I might hurt her.

At this point I am just frustrated. I am tempted to just let her finish the BJ as she is very good at it but I have a point to make and am now freaked out about why she won't let me touch her. I stand up and start to take the condom off of me.

She tells me to stop, says she wants to "sit on me" to see if I will fit in her, drops her pants and climbs on me. Thankfully, she is 100% female. She puts me in her, drops down on me so I am fully in her, moans about how good it feels, and then abruptly climbs off of me. WTF?!?!?

She then tells me that I filled her up too much, pulls her pants up and walks out of the room leaving me hanging. Bitch!

I tell her to come back. She says she doesn't want to because we will sleep together. I tell her we already have so we might as well finish. She comes back into the room but passes me by and goes to the bathroom and starts using my mouthwash because she says the condom taste is still in her mouth.

By this time, Lil Twitch has deflated a bit. I get my pants up and tell her she is a crazy woman. She wants to go grab dinner but I tell her I am not in the mood to hang with her because she is acting so weird and frustrating me. I walk her to the door. She reluctantly leaves.

This has been a very strange week. Never have I had a woman act so strange with me. I have still never seen or felt her breasts but I have entered her.

All this was followed by a very cold shower.....

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Punishment

Last night was a strange night.....

Flash back to Saturday night. After not wanting to go out all week, my Asian tease and her friends go out. She calls and texts me to join her. However, I have my sweetie from South Texas in town so I can't. I give Asian tease a lame excuse and then ignore her calls. She calls and texts several times. I return a few of the texts and then stop. What does she expect when she asks me to join her last minute on a Saturday night?

Sunday night, I go grab dinner with Head Monster before joining the boys at the club.

Back to last night. I was tired. I had a date Monday night that went well. I stayed at the girl's house but her dog kept waking me up all night so I wasn't well rested. Plus it is the end of the month before a holiday weekend so I knew that the bars wouldn't be that happening as everyone is saving up money for rent, car payments and holiday travels. I had every intention of staying in and getting a good night's sleep.

Head Monster texts me wanting to know if I want to meet up. I tell her I plan to stay in which was the truth.

Asian Tease calls me and tells me she is out and asks me to join her. I at first say no but then she convinces me to come out for a little bit and then we can leave the club early and she will come home with me. Sounds like a good plan to me so I get dressed and head out. I have only slept with her once and wouldn't mind another go 'round.

I show up and run into Capt Jack and Sinn hanging out with Tease and her friends. Tease and I hug and kiss and hang out for a while. However, she is spending a lot of time talking to her friends and I am talking to the boys a lot. No big deal to me. I find out later it was to her.

She goes inside for a long while and comes back with a drink and announces that some guy bought it for her. I tell her congratulations. She brings up again that she was bought the drink. I ask her if she finds it attractive when guys try to buy her affection. She says normally no but this one is really cute. I tell her she better get back in there then and give her a playful shove towards the door. She leaves and goes back inside.

I go back to listening to the boys talk about who is more Zen. Is arguing over who is more Zen very Zen like? Is being able to compete about being more Zen and still being Zen proof that you are more Zen?

Asian Tease comes back to me. As I am talking to her, I see Head Monster out of the corner of my eye walking my way. I quickly back turn both girls and talk to CJ and Sinn some more.

Tease leaves again and I turn around and find Head Monster with a group of her friends just feet behind me. She comes over and gives me a hug and immediately wants to know to know who the girl I am talking to is. I tell her she is in our circle of friends. Monster wants to know what I am doing out when I told her I was staying in. I tell her I changed my mind. She goes back to her friends. We periodically catch each other's eyes and make faces at each other.

I worry what is going to happen when Tease comes back and Monster confronts her.....I am not in the mood for drama tonight.

Monster comes up to me and tells me her and her friends are leaving. I am very relieved. Tease comes back shortly later, pulls me into a corner and we make out for a while. She stops and asks me who the girl was. I ask which one and she describes Head Monster. I tell her just someone I know. Girls can pick up on subcommunication so well....

Then, what seems like every PUA in the metroplex shows up at the bar. I politely leave Tease to say hi to the boys. She goes back inside with her friend. There are now more PUAs in the club than approachable women.

I have to pee so I go inside. After use the restroom, I try to find Tease inside but she is no where to be found. I go back outside and find her with our group again.

She pulls me into the corner and we make out again. Then she stops me and tells me that one of the PUA boys is a really good kisser. I ask her when she kissed him and she says tonight.

I tell her she is going to be punished and walk away from her. She tries pulling me back to her to make out some more but I keep walking away. I am not the lease bit upset because I don't have an emotional connection to her but find it disrespectful that she would try and kiss my friends when she is out with me. The PUA she kissed tells me she just came at him and they barely kissed. I believe him and really don't care.

Tease grabs me again and we make out some more. Hopefully this PUA she kissed doesn't have any cooties.....he better hope the same of me..... I then tell her I am tired and want to leave soon. She tells me she is going to get some water and will be back. She is gone for a long while, probably talking to whoever the drink buyer is inside.

I give her about 20 minutes to get water and then decide I have waited long enough and say my goodbyes and leave. Her friends apologize for her behavior. They say that she talks about me all of the time and must be acting this way because she is drunk. I tell them I am leaving because I am tired, not because of her which is true. If I was pissed at her, I would simply hit on other girls in front of her instead of leave.

As I am driving home, Tease calls me. She is upset that I left her. I tell her she was gone too long. She demands that I come back and get her so she can come home with me and I tell her maybe next time. She proceeds to argue with me but I make it clear I am not coming back for her as she disrespected me. She tells me the only reason she came out tonight is to hang out with me. I tell her she has a funny way of showing it and I get off the phone.

She calls me back and this time pleads instead of demands that I come get her. I still refuse to come back for her. Her friends apologize to me for her calls and then get her to hang up.

I get home, make myself a stiff drink as I wasn't really drinking at the club and could use one by now. I then slip into bed.

I get a call at 2am from Head Monster. She is just making sure I didn't take any girls home. I then go back to sleep.

About 2:30, I get a knock on my door. It is Tease. She wants to know why I left her. I tell her I told her I was leaving, she went into the bar and was gone too long. She was being disrespectful so I didn't feel like giving her the coutesy of waiting around. She tells me she only kissed my friend and was talking to the other guy because I wasn't giving her enough attention. I call bullshit on her and make her leave.

As she was leaving, she tells me she wants to make it up to me by doing naughty things to me on Thursday evening. I tell her I will think about it but she needs to call me tomorrow when she is sober if she is sincere.

I get a call from her first thing in the morning telling me she is sorry.

What a weird night. I knew I should have just stayed in.

Dogs vs Cats

You treat them the same way. You feed them, play with them, share your home with them, consider them members of your family, clean up after them, get them medical care when needed, care for them and generally love them.

Dogs look up to you as this great provider. They adore you, look up to you, worship you and can’t wait to have more time with you.

Cats on the other hand look at you like a faithful servant who jumps at their every whim. They get fed when they want and a scratch behind the ear when needed. Otherwise, you are just taking up their space.

The difference? Perceived value. Dogs see you as high value, cats as low value.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Ten Reasons Men Prefer Guns Over Women

#10. You can trade an old 44 for a new 22.
#9. You can keep one gun at home and have another for when you're on the road.
#8. If you admire a friend's gun and tell him so, he will probably let you try it out a few times. #7. Your primary gun doesn't mind if you keep another gun for a backup.
#6. Your gun will stay with you even if you run out of ammo.
#5. A gun doesn't take up a lot of closet space.
#4. Guns function nor! mally ev ery day of the month.
#3. A gun doesn't ask , "Do these new grips make me look fat?"
#2. A gun doesn't mind if you go to sleep after you use it. And the number one reason a gun is favored over a woman is ...
#1. YOU CAN BUY A SILENCER FOR A GUN

Monday, August 27, 2007

Swayed by opinion

I always have considered myself a man of my convictions. However, tonight, I found myself swayed by public opinion.

After my sweetie from South Texas flew out, I get a call from the girl from Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Head Monster. She wants to grab dinner after work.

She told me before that she is models on occasion but I kind of blew it off and didn't ask about it further. I initially approached the girl when I met her and think she is attractive, probably an 8 on my scale, but didn't consider her smoking hot. I have dated many Asians before and felt that several I have dated were better looking.

That being said, I like her and was not concerned about how hot she is. She is attractive enough for me, we get a long well and she sucks a mean dick.

We decide to eat dinner at a popular Asian restaurant. I was one of only 2 caucasian people in a very packed restaurant.

It was very strange. She got tons of attention. All of these people were coming up to our table and introducing themselves to her. A group of guys were staring at her and one from the group eventually came up and told her how pretty she was. The hostess and most of the waitresses all stopped by and introduced themselves.

I asked her what was going on and she said that she told me she modeled. I asked more details and it turns out, she is really well known in the Asian community.

It's funny, I walked into the restaurant on just a run of the mill date. And as I was leaving, I was strutting and showing off my prize.

Not sure what this says about me....

Great bumper sticker

Saw this one today...

Well behaved women rarely make history.

Sunday, August 26, 2007

Sloppy

Its 12:30 on Sunday afternoon. I am still drunk from last night. It is going to hurt when I finally sober up.

My sweetie from south Texas decided last minute to come into town. She flew in late, we watched a movie while I cooked us dinner and then we met up with Fidelio, Dr. D, and Sinn at the bars.

Before we went out, I had already made her a double Tuaca Redbull so she was buzzing before we even left the house. Big mistake. When she parties, she is the life of the party. And wants everyone else to party too.

She bought us many rounds of shots and when the boys didn't want anymoore, started buying just me shots. I must have drank a full bottle of Tuaca. My poor, poor liver.

As Monty Python says, she has "Huge tracts of land"....and knowing Sinn is a breast man, I put it in her head to mess with him. She was grinding on him, undoing his shirt, blowing out his matches, and generally just fucking with him. Fun stuff!

We bounced from one bar to another and there my memory leaves me. I don't remember leaving the bar, the taxi ride home, the naked lap dance she gave me or the blow job I received. Fortunately, she is cool girl and isn't pissed at all that I don't remember her oral gift. She is laughing at me this morning because she said I got so messy I tried to fight the taxi driver. Idiot I am!

I guess some guy at the last club we were at pinned her against a wall and felt her breasts. She made the mistake of telling me this which, in my drunken state, put me into kill mode. She wouldn't tell me who did it so I was just pissed at everyone.

Props out to Dr. D! I watched him meet a girl and take her home within about 20 minutes. Amazing work!

She is in the shower now and I am going to have to take her to the airport soon. I miss her when she is not here. Its been a long time since I met someone who I just click with like this. She is not the hottest girl I have ever dated, although anyone would say she is good looking, but our personalities just click. We shall see where this one goes....

Saturday, August 25, 2007

Stocks I am playing with

If you are not paying yourself before you pay your bills and blow money at the bars, you are doing yourself a disservice. If you are living paycheck to paycheck, you either need to lower your costs, get a better paying job / second job, or both.

The stock markets have been volatile lately because of the subprime market affecting lending. When this happens, people get scared and sell. However, the herd mentality often means that good companies are sold along with the bad.

Two stocks I have been watching and jumped on a couple of weeks ago are Countrywide (CFC) and Holly Corporation (HOC).

Countrywide is the nations biggest home loan lender. Although the industry isn't doing well, it is a stable company with a lot of assets and a history of taking advantage of downturns to better place themselves strategically.

Holly Corp is a midsized crude oil refiner that is demonstrating tremendous growth. As the U.S. isn't investing in more refining capacity as a whole, they will only continue to mint money.

I purchased both 2 weeks ago after the market did its big 300+ point drop.

My CFC stock is up 18.31% even after correcting a little bit on Friday.

HOC is up 22.52%.

Not a bad return in anybody's book!

Guilty for not posting

OK, after posting for 32 days straight for the Summer of Love challenge, I feel kinda guilty not posting every day. Weird I know but I always have a guilty conscience about everything. I get it from my mother.

So, here is a summary....

Friday, I decided to stay in. However, I got a call from Asian tease. Her and her friend are at a bar near my house. They convince me to come out so I join up with them, we bounce to a few bars and make out a lot. I actually spent a good time talking to Tease and her friend for the first time and felt that I formed a closer bond. They are cool chicks. Logistics were going to be a complication so I didn't even try to take Tease home.

Saturday, Tease calls me and wants to come over during the afternoon. However, I already had a date lined up. My date and I went salsa dancing and then to grab a beer. We then came back to my place, cuddled up and made out on my couch. She leaves before dinner as I told her I had plans.

I then called my previous one-it-is. We grabbed dinner and checked out a new club in Dallas and then went to her place to hang out for a while.

Sunday I flew out to see my sweetie in South Texas. We had a fun, crazy party time. Highlights where her sister walking in on us having sex. Instead of being embarrassed, I asked if she wanted to join us. She turned bright red. Hilarious!

Monday, hung out with my sweetie until the end of the day and then came back to Dallas. Just as I was pulling into my house, I got a call from an ex I am estranged with. She wanted to come over and talk to me. I reluctantly agree. She shows up and it turns out, she doesn't really want to talk. She is just horny and wants sex. She is in my house 5 minutes when she grabs my hand and pulls me into my bedroom. I can barely perfom as I am pretty sexed out from my sweetie but I did my best. We both finished so this old man didn't do too bad.

Tuesday and Wednesday I stayed in and caught up on some much needed sleep.

Thursday our housing country club had a big event. Hundreds of people showed up. All of the cute girls that work in the place were serving food and beer so there were many HOT hired guns. I proceeded to flirt and tease with all of them and ended up scoring 4 free beers and 3 free shots. The freebies plus the drinks I purchased proceeded to mess me up. With all of the liquid courage I had running through my system, I decided to open the most difficult sets of girls I could find. The hottest, the most standoffish, the ones surrounded by guys - I opened them all. I had some success including getting the number from a VERY HOT blonde.

After the event ended, I staggered my drunk ass home. I get a text from an Asian model I have been talking to. I have made out with her once but that is as far as we have gone. I will post more about her but suffice to say, I have discovered a Head Monster.

Tonight, Friday night, I am very tired after a long week at work. I head to the mall after a dinner at home to run some errands and get a text from my usual wing. He is tired too but wants to grab a quick drink.

We meet up at a trendy bar in the mall. While I am waiting for him, I open this gorgeous blonde from Russia - accent and all. It turns out, she is a model. My set goes OK but the momentum starts to die off so I excuse myself and wait nearby. My wing shows up and shortly after, the Russian's friend and the friend's boyfriend join her.

My wing and I open the boyfriend who really starts to bond with us. We share war stories and then he decides that the blonde I originally opened and I would make a cute couple. He starts playing matchmaker. He gets us to exchange numbers and emails, gets us to take a couple of pictures together and then timebridges for me later in the night. I have never been so hooked up before.

I eject to go home and change into something trendier and show up at the bar we are supposed to meet up at. While waiting, I run into a buddy of mine who is with a birthday party. The girl he is with is one of the finest looking women I have ever seen in person. She is the kind of hot that the whole bar - men and women - stare at in awe. Amazing!

Her friends, although not as hot as her, are also very attractive. My buddy introduces me all around and I get into comfort with one of the girls. We dance a bit and spend a lot of time with our arms around each other. I eventually get her number and eject to find my Russian Model but she is no where to be found so I leave the bar. As I was distracted for a while, I have no idea if they ever showed up or not.

I head to X bar. It is packed and there are several cute honies but for some reason, I am not feeling it. I leave within 10 minutes and head to another bar near my house. Not feeling this one either and realize I just need to go home and chill. It is time for some alone time....

Friday, August 24, 2007

Head Monster

Thursday, I am at a big event at our country club. I proceed to get very messed up with free beers and shots I was scoring from the hired gun bartendars. Fortunately, I didn't have to drive and can stagger home.

I get home, force water down my throat to help sober up, shower and get ready for an early night's sleep.

As I am checking my nighttime email, I get a text from an Asian model I am talking to. We have made out once but haven't ever hooked up and I haven't seen her in a couple of weeks. We dirty text every day or so and talk on the phone about once a week but I thought our attraction was slowly fading.

She wants me to pick her up and go grab a late night bite to eat with her. I assure her I am way too drunk to get behind the wheel of a car. She tries to convince me to come get her and I hold my ground that I am not driving. I tell her if she wants to see me, she needs to come get me.

She reluctantly agrees and I give her directions to my place.

She shows up 45 minutes later just as I am getting ready to crawl into bed because I got tired of waiting for her. I throw some sweat pants on, let her in, give her a kiss which leads to a make out. She starts grinding on me and then reaches down to feel Lil Twitch through my PJs. Two minutes later, yes, two minutes after she walked in my door, she drops my pants and starts to give me the blow job of the century.

As we are in my entranceway and my roommate could come home any moment, I drag her into my bedroom. I try taking her clothes off but she stops me and tells me tonight is all about me. She proceeds to suck me off until I finish in a toe curling finale.

She goes into my bathroom, finger brushes her teeth and uses my mouthwash to clean out her mouth. She then comes back to me and we start making out again.


Again, I try to play with her breasts and take her shirt off but she keeps stopping me. I turn her over and try to undo her belt but she stops me again telling me tonight is about me.

About 10 minutes of me trying to get her into various states of undress, she turns me over, pulls my pants down and starts going down on me again. Seriously!

I don't know about you but at my age, I need a bit of recharge time. At least more than 10 minutes....However, she manages to get me hard again.

She is really working it and keeps going for at least 10 minutes. I try to stop her letting her know I am going to be a while. She stops long enough to tell me she loves the challenge and keeps going. I give her another 5 minutes but am not feeling the pressure build up. I don't want her to have mouth fatigue so I try and stop her again.

This just motivates her more and she pulls out all of her tricks. This girl is amazing! However, it is just way too soon for me so no second happy ending for me.

Here is the best part. Instead of hanging around or dragging me out to eat, she tells me I should get some sleep, asks if I like her more now that she took care of me (YES!!!), and leaves. She was at my house a total of about 30 minutes.

It has been a while since I met a Head Monster. The last one I met I moved in with and lived with her for a year and a half. I am looking forward to getting to know this one better!

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

What I learned from the pick up community...

I recently posted about why I got into the pick up community. Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Why did I get involved in the pick up community?

Now that I have been in the community for just over a year, I would like to share some of my observations and lessons learned from being in the community:

I have made some good friends (guy and girls) which to me has been the biggest positive. There are some good guys in the community who are working on improving themselves in a lot of areas of their life, just like me. And just because “a set” didn’t go as I wanted, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have a friendly relationship with the woman you met.

A lot of what is taught in the community is just basic human psychology. Do X to get response Y. It is really not that complicated at the root of it. Humans have been mating for thousands of years without books and online communities to assist. Don’t overcomplicate things.

Most guys aren’t social enough. You should be “gaming” men and women everywhere you go. Say hi, make small talk, be social. Greet people in halls, stores, elevators, on the street, etc. Everyone likes to talk about themselves – make small talk and ask a sincere question or two and you would be surprised at what happens. Hell, if nothing else, be like a comedian and test out your stuff at small venues before hitting the main stage.

There are a lot of keyboard jockey’s who are quick to criticize out there. If you have been in this community for over a couple of months and haven’t gotten your wardrobe together and done the newbie challenge of approaching 50 women and learning your sticking points, you are being lazy or not taking this seriously. Unless you can consistently approach women and get some sort of positive response (even if it is just a “hi”), you have absolutely no business critiquing others.

A lot of PUAs really need to see counselors to get over past insecurities or abuses (family, school kids, bullies, etc.). I did.

Guys are competitive. Sometimes overly so. And since they are learning a new skill, they tend to compete. There are too many guys concerned with numbers vs. really learning, improving, and meeting quality women.

There is a lot of gaming other guys in the community. The master PUAs I personally know have it together. But how many of the guru’s are really successful with women vs. successful at selling the next ebook or CD. Some just have a good reputation because they have been endorsed by a big name.

Older women tend to be sexier. They are more confident and know what they want more so than women in their early 20’s.

After getting some of the women I thought I always wanted, I realize I didn’t want them after all. Many physically beautiful women have too many insecurities and create too much drama. I think this is because they have been judged on their looks more than brains or personality their entire lives.

The 3 things I have learned that have helped me the most is the Mystery Method structure of Attract / Comfort / Seduction, learning the indicators of interest women give to men and that logistics can make or break you interaction so you need to proactively manage them.

Sexy is better than hot any day.

Most of the truly quality girls can only be successfully sarged through a social circle. Most women with many options will not take risks with a “random” guy. They don’t need to. They will not risk the danger of going home with a stranger nor will they risk losing status among their friends for being viewed as a “slut”.

I am damn good at getting women to be attracted to me. I probably have been for a while. I just didn’t know the signs to look for. And I didn’t know what to do or have the courage to do anything about it. Until now….

I am a giver. I like relationships. Same night lays don’t hold much interest for me. I prefer to prolong seduction. It’s exciting to truly get to know someone, tease her and have good communication before you ever jump in the sack. It makes sex all that much better when you have a true connection and feel open to communicate what you like and dislike to your partner.

There are waayyyy too many companies out there selling their pick up wares. It can be very distracting. My advice? Pick a method, master it and work pieces of others into your game. I suggest learning the Mystery Method and intersperse David DeAngelo’s Cocky Funny into your game. Get a bootcamp from Sinn or one of the other successful trainers if you need to.

I really don’t want to sleep around anymore. If next girl I had sex with was my wife, as unlikely as that is, it would be wonderful.

There is no opener or routine that is good substitute for confidently walking up to a girl, letting her know you are interested in her and flirting. Confidence is sexy!

Friday, August 17, 2007

Quotes of the day

"Mediocrity stems from lack of belief more than lack of skill." - Jeffrey Gitomer

"Within you right now is the power to do things you never dreamed possible. This power becomes available to you just as soon as you can change your beliefs." - Maxwell Maltz

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Day 33 - Work provided the take away

Long day at work today. I had a major deliverable I had to produce but several higher priority things popped up requiring me to pull a late one.

Problem is, I had a date lined up at a sushi bar with an ex-stripper I haven't closed yet and her large group of friends. I text her "Sorry, I can only grab a drink and say hi. No sushi for me 2nite." She texts back OK.

We were supposed to meet at 7pm. I slip out of work right at 7 with a look from my CEO who knows all that I have to get done tonight. I show up at 7:15pm and grab a beer. And wait. And wait. I think I am about to get stood up when Stripper shows up at 7:45 full of apologies.

Her group has been there the whole time so she introduces me and we grab a table. I tell her I can stay until about 9pm and then will have to get back.

The whole group is in a big conversation except for us. We are looking into each others eyes, playing with each other's hands under the table and flirting which effectively isolates us in the group.

Things are going fine when my phone rings. Its work and I have to go. I tell her I have to leave and she gives me sad eyes and tells me she is having fun. I apologize, give her a big, big hug and head out.

She texts me on my drive that it was great seeing me. She texts me again later saying she is full and that I missed a great dinner.

Then she calls me on her drive home and wishes I could have stayed and wants to know when we are going to go out again. I am shocked that I made such an impression.

I think that work calling me away provided the take away that spiked her interest. Most guys probably fawn all over her and I ditch her in front of her friends.

We will hopefully be seeing each other again and I will have something more exciting to post about our next date.

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Day 32 - Happy Hour

Today I have a happy hour date lined up with a girl I have been talking to for a while but we just haven't been able to connect.

During work, I text the girl I went out with Monday night and we made plans to meet up when she gets off work which will also be after my happy hour date should be over.

Unfortunatley, the work Gods cursed me today. About 4pm, I got a couple of day's work dumped on me and it all has to be done by the end of day tomorrow.

I call the girl from Monday night and cancel (which upsets her) and then meet up with my happy hour date. We went to an Irish pub which is one of my favorite bars in Dallas.

We talk, kino and drink for a while until we get hungry. We then decide to eat as this bar has great food.

Some of her friends show up at a table nearby so we join them for a bit. The table is a tall table so instead of chairs, everyone is sitting on bar stools. I sit for a bit but find it is hurting my back so I stand. This gives me the added benefit of being "taller" than everyone else at the table which allowed me to better command the attention of the table.

I tell some stories and have the table laughing. One of her friends is obviously the obnoxious one and her and I start playing off each other and having a good time.

8pm rolls around and I really have to get home to get back to work. My date leaves with me. I walk her to her car, we make out a little bit and then I head home to get some work done. Its funny, I have been out with women so much in the last couple of weeks that I don't think twice about kissing a girl anymore. I just go for it and haven't been rejected yet.

I call my date from Monday to apologize again for blowing her off last minute but she doesn't answer. If she's gone, she is gone.....

Day 31 - No more tease

During the day, I play text war with several girls and set up a date with Asian tease for later in the week and a date for Wednesday night happy hour. I also make plans to spend Saturday night in south Texas with my sweetie down there. We are having withdrawals from each other after spending almost a week together last week....

I go home, grab a quick nap and then a get a text from the girl I was out with last night. She wants me to swing by and visit her on her work break.

I shower, head out, grab some Chick-Fil-A for us and then hang out with this latest chica while she is on break. She is more reserved in front of her coworkers than she was last night understandably but does give me a nice good bye hug and a kiss.

I then head out to a hotel bar in Dallas that is hosting this big party. I have myself and two buddies on the guest list but one buddy flakes and the other put himself on the list too. Sinn calls and I tell him he and Capt Jack can take my friend's places on the list and we make plans to meet in front of the hotel.

Normally there is traffic due to some construction on the way there so I leave a little early. However, I don't run into any slow traffic so I arrive early. I stand outside for a while before the heat starts to get to me. I tell the door guy my two buddies are coming and he says all they have to do is give him their names and he will let them in. I tell them I am going to switch names to Sinn and CJ and he says I can't do that. However, he is not checking IDs to see if your name matches the name on the list so I text the boys their new "names" to get past the door guy and head into the air conditioning.

My buddy that put his name on the list, my usual wing, is in the club already. He is very, very good at meeting people and has already gotten the names of most of the bartendars so he walks me around and introduces me to them all. One of them puts me on some special VIP list to get in during events.

He then brings me over to a group of 3 girls he opened earlier. One is average, one is hot and one is SMOKING! He introduces me and instantly the Smoking one comes over and shakes my hand and then continues to hold my hand while she obviously flirts with me. It is rare that such an attractive girl is so forward with me so fast.

We are just getting into some comfort talk - still holding hands - when Sinn and CJ start texting me that they are having trouble getting in. I reluctantly leave my girl to go help them when I get a text that they made it in. I go back to SMOKING but these two old guys have grabbed her to get their picture taken with her. As she is occupied, I decide to wander the bar and reopen her later.

Sinn and CJ come up and say hi. I chat for a bit but have to use the bathroom. I start heading that way with my Wing when low and behold, I run into the HOT blonde from Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: "Bitchy" and her fiance.

She is looking hot as ever if not a little too thin. After I ran into her at the strip club a couple of months ago, we hung out one day. She told me she has always had a crush on me but is still trying to work things out with her fiance.

I asked her how things are going with him and she said still not good. I can tell it is taking a toll on her. She looks down in the dumps.

Her and I end up talking while my wing distracts the fiance. She asks if I have a girlfriend and I tell her no. She says "good" while giving me puppy dog eyes. I don't get why this girl likes me so as I was always intimidated by her so never really flirted or gave any indication that I was into her.

I talk to her for as long as my bladder can take it and then excuse myself.

I find the boys and CJ tells me that he saw Asian tease out on the patio earlier. I ask where so I can avoid her. Its not that I don't want to see her, its just that when her and I are together, everyone else is shut out and I want to hang out with the guys and flirt with more girls before getting sucked into that vortex.

I meander through the crowd again and try to open some sets. I open this gorgeous, petite Asian girl in a turquoise dress. Rarely have I been shot down so hard. Right in the middle of me starting to talk to her, she says "no" forcefully and turns and walks away. Yikes!

I wander some more and open some random girls. I then find the girl from "Bitchy" again and hang with her and her fiance. As I am talking to her, I see Asian tease in the background. I motion for her to come over but she walks off.

I later leave Bitchy and run into Asian tease and her friend again. Tease is a little stand off ish. I later ask her why and she says she was watching me hit on Bitchy for a while from the distance and it upset her.

She gets over it eventually and we start our usualy making out / grope session. Her friend wants to dance so I ditch them while they hit the dance floor. I like to dance but it is way too warm in the club and I don't feel like being a sweat ball.

I go back to Asian tease and her friend. While we are talking, Bitchy and her friends come stand near us. Every time I would glance up, I would catch Bitchy looking at me talking to Asian tease. I winked at her a few times and she smiled back.

I eventually decide to merge sets and bring Asian tease and her friend into Bitchy's group and then talked to Bitchy some more. As I am talking to Bitchy with my arm around her, Asian tease is glaring at me.

It was like running double jealousy routines. I was loving it!

Jump ahead to 1am. I am tired from lack of sleep the last few nights and the club is very warm making it is time for Twitchy to get home. I tell Asian tease that I enjoyed seeing her but that I am out. She says she wants to leave too and asks her friend if she is ready. Friend is having fun flirting and dancing and wants to stay. I ask if Tease wants to come home with me and she agrees.

We get back to my place for the first time we have ever been completely alone. She is a little standoffish so I don't make any moves and instead offer her some water. She brings up the fact that she saw my flirting all night with Bitchy and it upset her. I ask if it made her jealous and she says yes. I laugh at her and tell her it was payback for teasing me so much. She hits me and then loosens up with me. We are standing and talking in my kitchen which leads to a make out which leads to her undoing my pants.

I pull her into my bedroom and get her clothes off and go down on her. She then tells me she wants to return the favor but I stay on top of her kissing all over her as last time she gave me a blow job I didn't finish and as tired as I was, didn't think I was going to be quick this time either.

She gets my clothes off of me and then asks if I want her. I tell her yes but that we are not going to have sex tonight. She questions why not and I tell her because she has been such a tease, I can tell she is not ready for me and probably couldn't handle me.

My strategy worked! She goes crazy kissing all over me, moaning and asking me to take her. I keep teasing her and telling her she can try all she wants but I am not going to sleep with her.

This goes on for a while until she of course "convinces" me to fuck her. We go at it for a while until her friend, who was her ride, started blowing up my phone wanting to come pick Tease up from my house.

I walk her out to friend's car and she tells me that it is now all in my hands as to when we will go out again and she looks forward to my call.

So, finally, on my 4th time getting hot and heavy with her, I finally have sex with her. Now, anybody would find this girl attractive but she is not so hot as to have it take this long. There are always exceptions to all rules and people always have different stuff they are dealing with in their lives but this was a hard won victory. I definitely need to step up my game.

Below is the progression of our time together. Besides meeting up these times, we had several phone conversations and many text exchanges:

Day 1: Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Day 3 - The Teaser got Teased

Day 2: Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Day 18 - Blue balled again

Day 3: Twitchy's Pleasurable Pursuits: Day 19 - Finish What You Started

Day 4: This post

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Why did I get involved in the pick up community?

Like many in the community, I started out not having a good social or dating life. In high school I was the classic, awkward nerd. Although intelligent, I was very insecure, timid, dorky, and introverted. In addition to my geekiness, I grew up very poor. So poor that my Mom, God bless her heart, would make my clothes or buy them from garage sales. I was definitely not the “cool” kid wearing the latest trends…...

We also had to grow a lot of our own food and cut our own wood to heat our house so instead of being out playing on Friday or Saturday nights, I was normally chopping wood, fishing or hunting to put food on the table.

Throughout my high school years, I would have these obsessive crushes on the hottest girls but would never let them know or “make a move” on them. Instead, I would do stupid stuff to get their attention like draw these detailed, abstract drawings with the girl’s name or initials hidden in them and then give it to the girls. Throughout early high school, the closest I got to a date was one of my crushes at the time wanted me to draw her something so I did while she sat with me and we talked.

To add insult to injury, I was picked on mercilessly by many of the jocks and upperclassmen in my little country hick high school so I was embarrassed on an almost daily basis. I was beat up, locked in lockers, hung from jacket hooks, placed on water fountains with the water running, pushed down stairs, - all the usual kid stuff – in front of the girls I had crushes on. Many times I went home with black eyes, bloody noses, torn clothes or with gum in my hair for doing nothing other than being smart and awkward. Not fond memories!

I was always curious as to why the cool kids were cool and why I wasn’t. As I got a little older, instead of dating, I would pass my time people watching - studying why the cool kids were cool. I would go to parties (when they would let me in) or wherever the cool kids hung out, sit in the corner with a drink, and watch all of the social interaction. I also read lots of books on sex and relationships and watched a lot of TV – especially comedy shows.

This is how sad my understanding of sex was before educating myself…..although I knew about penetration, I actually thought that pregnancy happened through the pubic hair not unlike the pollination of flowers or corn. Seriously! I am almost reluctant to admit it…..

And then I did something life altering. I got a job in a town 45 minutes away from my little home town. It was like starting over, as no one knew me or my geeky past. I happened to work with one of the cheerleaders in that town whom I got along great with and she introduced me to her friends which is where I also really discovered partying.

Having spent the last few years studying people, I now started applying all that I learned made someone “cool” to my newfound life. Although I didn’t have much inner confidence, I was able to fake it fairly well. I made friends with the “cool” kids in this town, had my first dates, got my first kiss and ended up even dating this town’s Homecoming Queen for a bit and another girl who was a runner up to Miss Teen [STATE].

However, most of these dates or girlfriends were from girls who chased me. I believe they chased me from as much as me being the unknown “new guy” in town as any attractiveness I possessed. And when they did catch me, I didn’t know what to do with them and they would eventually lose interest and dump me. I went off to college still very much a virgin and never even having had oral sex.

College treated me better. I lost my virginity to a great girl, dated two of my university’s football cheerleaders (who were sisters), and made a lot of friends. However, I still lacked overall confidence and had very little style.

After college, I joined the military which helped my confidence in many ways but not with women. It’s amazing that many soldiers can survive basic training, learn to kill and yet are still terrified of talking to an attractive girl.

After the military, I decided that it was time to get my dating life in order. I actually went through a several year transformation to make myself more attractive to women:

- Started working out every day and put 50 lbs of muscle on my very wiry frame (now since gone soft)
- Started going to Toastmasters to improve my speaking
- Got lasik and ditched the thick glasses
- I lived way beneath my means, started a budget, sacrificed going out and quit buying unnecessary stuff so that I had some money in the bank
- Whitened my teeth
- Got acne medicine to clean up my face
- Started reading books on dating (although they don't hold a light to what exists now)
- Became friends with a trendy gay guy who helped me with a hair style and some trendy clothes
- Found some fun hobbies
- Gathered a large circle of hot girlfriends (mostly by my failed attempts to date them)

I also reached several other goals I was pursuing such as getting a master’s degree, buying a first home, putting money in the bank, buying a nice car, traveling around the world and starting my own company.

After I had my life together as well as I thought I wanted it, I joined an expensive dating service that sets people up on dates. In 2 years, I went on over 70 blind dates. Trust me, I am not uncomfortable on any dating situation anymore…..Through all of that, I still never learned really how to make a move. It would either just "happen", the girl would be the aggressor, or it wouldn't happen at all unless we were out drinking and I had some "liquid courage" in me.
I could approach, carry on conversation, get girls cracking up at my jokes and tease them. I could get their numbers, and get them to go on "dates" with me. However, I would rarely touch them (kino) or make “a move” so most just ended up becoming friends. In my mind, I couldn’t tell if they liked me if they didn’t hold my hand or kiss me and I would rather have them as a friend than try something on them and have them insulted by it. A very lame perspective in hindsight.

I would listen to these female friends of mine describe everything that they wanted in a man. I knew that they were always describing “me” but they would always end up with losers who cheated on them, abused them, couldn’t hold a job, whatever…..

I never figured out that although these guys didn’t have much going for them “on paper”, they knew how to generate attraction.

I may have had a lot going for me, but I wasn’t a man. Or didn’t act like one towards women. Instead, I would attempt to buy their love with dinner, flowers, nights out, listening to them, etc. How fake is that? I had no problem talking to women. I just felt that I would be making them uncomfortable if I touched them so I wined and dined them and waited until they tried something on me (if ever).

I had “make a move” anxiety vs. approach anxiety….

Instead, my natural way of getting girls was to try amp up their attraction until they became the aggressor and made a move on me. This way I was sure they wanted to have happen whatever happened and I wouldn't risk rejection.

What skills I did have for game were what my friends called “the fisherman”. I would cast out to many girls and see what bit. I would flirt, tease, do everything but make a move and hope that someone would take interest. Occasionally they would and I have dated some exceptional women and have had sex with more women than the number of years I have been on this planet. However, it was the ones that chased me that I dated and it never quite felt fulfilling.

What I didn’t realize then, and now know, was that I was getting a lot of responses to my fishing expeditions. I just didn’t realize it. I wasn’t picking up on women’s indicators of interest (IOIs). Or if I did notice subconsciously, I was too scared to act on them.

So, after failed relationship after failed relationship and losing out on a couple of recent crushes that put me in the “friends” zone, I decided it was time to do something drastic. I started searching the internet for seduction advice and ran across references to “The Game”. Through that book, I discovered the pick up community in July 2006.

Being in the pick up community has helped me dramatically improve my life in this area. My ultimate goal is to find the woman I have the best connection with and marry her and start a family some day. The problem is, I am very, very picky. Although I can be understanding, compromising and forgiving, I hold the women I have relationships with to the same high standards I hold myself to. It is tough to live up to.

So the search is still on going to find the one that I find myself compatible with, who is sexy, who is attractive, who I can have fun with and who will call me on my bullshit when needed. I plan on meeting, dating and getting to know as many women as possible until I find one I can’t live without.

I plan to be the Chooser instead of the Chaser.

A few more days

I started the Summer of Love on a Sunday with the official cut off to enter being that Tuesday. I have gotten a lot out of pushing myself and feel that my game has really grown.

Since I have a head start on many who started the challenge on Monday or Tuesday, I don't feel that the couple of days I didn't push myself hard or that the time I spent with girlfriends were wasted.

That being said, I plan on undertaking the challenge a few more days - until at least Wednesday - just to demonstrate that I am fully dedicated to the challenge and to continue to push myself.

Day 30 - Freak

As it is Day 30 of my Summer of Love challenge, I know that I have to go out with as big of a bang as possible. A couple of girls that I have been seeing call me to see what I am up to but I decide that I have to go fresh tonight.

There is only one bar that is really happening in Dallas on Monday nights and the cops have been cracking down on it so I decide to see if I can set up a last minute date instead. If no one bites, I will head out to the bar and just have to limit my drinking.

I text my Asian tease to see if I can fully close the deal with her but she doesn't respond. As far as I know, she is probably out hooking up with someone else.

I text one of the day dates that I blew off on Saturday when I wasn't feeling well. We correspond but she wants me to make it up by taking her out on a weekend night, not a Monday. She wants a real date from me.... I normally reserve Fri and Sat nights for girlfriends or partying with the boys - not dates - but she is being drama so I may have to give in if I want it to go anywhere with her.

I text a girl I met through day game a few weeks back. We correspond now and then but I haven't taken her out yet as I have a full schedule and she doesn't drink. This girl is a tiny little thing - a size 0. I am a mid-riff guy and she has this tight little tummy that drives me crazy. Yummy! Tonight she has to work until 10pm but then is free and willing to go out. She suggests a movie. I normally don't like movies for early-in-the-relationship dates as you can't talk during them but I want to see this particular movie too so I go for it.

I show up at her work and walk her out to my car. She says she is going to drive hers too so that her car isn't left after hours at her work. I follow her to the movie theater which happens to be in a mall near my house. As we are driving I get this weird, bad, gut feeling about leaving my car there. I rationalize that it is no big deal and that there are security guards but my gut keeps talking. I usually listen to him when he is persistent.

We park in the mall garage and then I tell her that I don't want to leave my sports car after hours at the mall so I want to go home to switch vehicles. She hops in and we go to my house (which she has never been to before).

I am trying to seed some comfort with her so I give her the quick tour of the place and then abruptly say "let's go" and walk her out to my truck. This hopefully will give her a level of trust with me now that I took her to my place and didn't try anything on her. It should also place in her mind my house as a comfortable place to come back to later.

As I have been around girls I have relationships with for the last week and a half, I am very comfortable around her and escalate as I probably wouldn't normally do.

As we are driving, I unconsciously rest my hand on her thigh. Later, I hold her hand and then tease her inner arm with my finger tips. It is just a natural action for me and she doesn't complain.

We get back to the mall and I hold her hand walking in. We get tickets and then she orders a hot dog and a coke. I try to kiss her while we are waiting for her food but she turns and gives me her cheek.

We get into the theater and I matter-of-fact tell her that she better kiss me now before she gets hot dog breath as she won't get any kisses after that. We make out for a short bit. She is a good kisser but uses a bit more tongue than I like. I am going to have to train her....

The movie starts and I have my hand on her inner thigh rubbing her leg. As the movie goes on, she turns now and then to kiss me for small make out sessions. I make a joke out of it and hand her some gum. Then tell her she better take two.

During one slow scene in the movie, we start making out so much that she starts to slide out of her seat and into mine. This earns some naughty comments from the teenagers sitting behind us which stops her dead in her tracks. She eventually wraps her arms around mine and puts her head on my shoulder.

The movie ends and she has to go to the bathroom. I give her a big kiss before she walks in and she jokes that I should join her. I think she was actually serious but there were some young teenage girls coming in behind her so she turned and entered without me.

She comes out and we start walking to the car. I start taking the direct route out of the mall but she suggests we take the long, meandering way. Ha! She is helping me with my game! We end up making out in a couple dark corners.

We get out to the cars and start making out leaning against the back of hers. She is starting to dry hump me and moan as we get more and more into it. I pull her hair hard enough to pull her head back and start biting her neck. This turns her on more.

I suggest we head back to my place and she says no so I step back off her and quit kissing her. A take away.... She hugs me for a while and then starts making out with me again. We start getting hot and heavy again. She notices a mall security truck circling in the distance and pulls away. I guess she is not an exhibitionist.

The security dude drives off and we start making out again. She pulls up my shirt and starts sucking on my chest while scratching my back. I start rubbing her through her jeans and she starts moaning again. I grab her hand and pull her over to my truck. She tells me she wants to take it slow because she likes me. I tell her that sex and being turned on is natural and that I don't judge. I then open my truck door and she crawls in.

We start making out again and I suggest driving back to my place. She says no because she doesn't want to leave her car. I think about offering for her to follow me but realize I need to ramp her up some more before we drive in seperate cars which would allow for an opportunity for her LMR (last minute resistance) to kick in.

She tells me she is tired and wants to leave and go to bed in 5 minutes. I make a note of the time and decide to use her time limit as a take away. We make out hot and heavy and I occasionally glance up at the clock. Five minutes rolls around and I stop us and tell her it is time for her to go. She says she doesn't want to. I tell her she needs to make up her mind about what she wants but I am not going to make out in the truck anymore as it isn't comfortable for me.

She starts kissing on me some more and tells me she wants to spend more time with me. I start the truck which turns the headlights on. This catches the notice of the security dude again and he starts circling us again.

We kind of rub on each other's arms and legs while we wait for the security guard to leave. After he goes, we start making out again. Her hands start getting naughty and she starts rubbing on Lil Twitch through my jeans.

However, with the way I am sitting, my jeans are tight which is making me uncomfortable as Lil Twitch gets mroe and more attention. I adjust my jeans to give me some room and then she really starts to go to town on Lil Twitch.

He responds positively and she starts to unzip me. I tell her we should head back to my place and she says she wants to play first. She slips her hand into my jeans and starts stroking me. I pull her hair back and start biting her neck again. She starts moaning and tells me she is wet. She then asks me to talk to her so I start talking dirty telling her all of the things I would be doing to her if we were in private.

She responds ferociously. I can't describe it well but she is moaning, writhing, and rubbing all over me and herself. I wouldn't be surprised if she is about to come and I am not even really touching her. This girl is a freak! I love it!

I only spent a couple of minutes with her when I initially got her number. We have text corresponded a bit but never talked on the phone. And the only time we have spent together is at this movie. And now she has her hands down my pants and moaning in my ear!

She starts talking dirty back to me and tells me she wants to taste me. Just as she gets the words out of her mouth, there is a knock on the truck window. The security guard snuck up on us and is now shining a light on my crotch with her hand down my pants.

He gestures for us to roll down the window. I roll it down and he asks if everything is OK. I get a good look at this guy and it is obvious he is the kind of guy that tried out for the police force and failed and now lives in his momma's basement and does security so he can brag about wearing a uniform. You know the type..... The smart ass in me comes out. I tell him everything was going great until he interrupted us. He says that the mall is closed and we should leave. I say OK, we will and then he continues to stand there and watch us while shining a light on us. I eventually say "EXCUSE ME!?" and he walks back about 10 feet but keeps watching.

This has ruined the mood for my girl. I try again to get her to come back to my place but her exact words were "Him shining the light on me dried me up. I am no longer wet or turned on". FUCK!

I walk her over to her car while glaring at the security guard who took my prize away from me. I kiss her good night and she drives off.

She later texts me that she thinks I am hot and to not have naughty dreams of her kisses.

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Day 29 - Alone time

I NEED my alone time now and then to recharge my batteries. As I haven't had any time to myself in over a week, I am craving it.

My girl and I get up early, get frisky and then head to church with my previous one-it-is who invited me to go with her. The service is great and then we head back to my place to cuddle up and watch TV for a while. We then go to lunch and I take her to the airport to fly out.

After the airport, I work the phone to make up dates with the girls I skipped out on yesterday because of my upset tummy. However, at the last minute, I had no takers. Since it is Sunday, I decide it is going to be a quiet day for me and head home, shower and watch movies and play on the computer all day.

I make or take several phone calls to some of the girls I am interested in throughout the day. One of the girls I have been seeing off and on calls and she is upset that I haven't seen her in over a week. I have made it clear to her several times that we are not exclusive and that I am dating other people but she continually conveniently forgets this.

As I can tell she is much more into me than I am into her, I end it with her as respectfully as possible. I am eventually looking for a wife and since I realize I have no future with this one, continuing to date her is wasting her valuable time and mine.

Tomorrow marks my last day on the 30 day challenge. As I have spent some time with girlfriends instead of out gaming which is the purpose of the challenge, I plan on extending my daily blogging at least another day or two to get the full benefit.

Day 28

My new visitor and I sleep in and then go grab some Thai food at this great little Thai restaurant I know. I have two dates this afternoon with other girls I tell her I have some stuff to do in the afternoon and she plans to go shopping.

However, the food we ate didn't sit well with either of us. We both have upset tummies so we go home. She lies down while I slip out of the house and make calls to cancel my dates. I come back in and join her for a nap after catching up on some emails.

After we rest, we both feel better so we head out for dinner and then out to meet my same buddy at the same north Dallas suburb I was at on Thursday.

Same bar, same buddy, different girl.

As it is Saturday, the place is hopping! We are both drinking slowly while my buddy, who came solo this time, is gaming.

My girl leaves for the bathroom so I decide to try my hand. I open this very hot blonde with a big smile. She smiles back so I start talking to her. I see my girl coming back to me and as I don't want any drama, I say my goodbyes to the hottie and walk to meet my girl.

My buddy comes by and opens a girl walking by him. He gets in good with her and then her friend comes over to join us. As it just so happens, her friend is the girl I opened which makes for an awkward moment with my girl.

To alleviate the situation, I ask my girl if I can help my buddy wing. She says yes so I leave her side and wing my buddy. The girl I am winging is a lot hotter than the girl my buddy is hitting on in my opinion but he differs. This is why we are good wings - very different taste in women.....

I eventually go back to my girl as I can see she is restless. My buddy Vodka texts that he is on his way to the bar. Ugh. When Vodka and I get together, crazy shit happens....

My girl and I dance while my buddy wings and we wait for Vodka. Vodka shows and we start doing shots of Tuaca. I hand the keys to my girl as she isn't much of a drinker and Vodka and I proceed to damage our livers and raise hell. I never let it get too out of control as I didn't want to piss my girl off and have to deal with the drama.

The bar closes and we head out. We get back to my place for some naked tickling.

Day 27 - The switch

My girl from South Texas leaves in the morning when I head off to work.

After work, I head to the airport to pick up another visitor. Switching one for the other.....This is my girl I experienced the funny wedding story with. She is also a 9 with the most amazing body!

She is hungry so we go from the airport straight to a restaurant. We then head to my house and debate about going out but decide to stay in and watch a movie instead. We cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie she brought with her.

We then head to bed. She is a virgin for religious reasons and I have told her I would respect that and not pressure her. However, she likes to please me in other ways.

Last time I saw her, she gave me a blow job but I was a "tough customer". It was only the 3rd she had ever given and although she is learning, doesn't have it quite down yet.

However, this time something has changed. She gave me the MOST INCREDIBLE one I have ever had, bar none! I was laughing from the release it felt so good. I asked her how she learned all that she did and she told me she has been reading. I begged her to tell me what she read (so I could pass it on to my other girls) but she refused to divulge.

Mental note to myself to continue to try and get this information from her.

Day 26 - Emotions

I have to work today and my girl originally had plans to head home but she decides to stay another day. I give her a key so she can come and go and head out.


I get home late and she is in bed, naked, waiting for me. We have some fun and then head out to meet up with a buddy at this happening suburb bar in north Dallas. It is happening as there is a model show going on.

We drink, dance and hang with my buddy and his girl. I think every horny guy in the place hit on my girl at one time. One guy came up to her and said "You are FUCKING HOT! Can I get your number?"

She turns to me and says "Don't guys know how to game in Dallas. That was soooo lame!"

We do too many shots and have too many drinks so we are both buzzing hard. I start drinking water so I will be good to drive but she keeps drinking.

The bar closes so we head home. We have sex and then she starts talking about "us". She tells me she is scared to tell me this but she has fallen in love with me. I tell her that I care about her too but that she has some personal things she needs to take care of and we discuss those things.

I tell her until she gets her house in order, I can't have an exclusive relationship with her. She understands and tells me again she loves me before going to sleep.

Thursday, August 9, 2007

Day 25 - Commute from Hell

Supposedly, today was the first time the NY subways had ever been flooded out by rain. Of course, I slept through the storm so I knew nothing of it.

We had planned on leaving for the airport 2 hours early to ensure plenty of time but it turns out that was not nearly enough.

The whole city was backed up and all of the many cabs that were going by were occupied. We joined a long line outside the hotel for taxi. As luck would have it (or so it would seem), a taxi shows up and refuses to take the people in front of us who aren't traveling far enough. I holler out that we are headed to the airport and he agrees to take us.

We climb in the taxi with much rumbling from everyone we skipped in line behind us. I can't blame them.

However, this was a bad, bad move. The taxi dude is shady and proceeds to drive from hotel to hotel looking for others to go to the airport as he wants a full taxi. He also refuses to turn on the meter. After an hour of him driving in circles and me complaining that we had to get to the airport, he pulls over and makes us get out.

We are now an hour from our flight time and no closer to the airport. We panic and start running for the bus station. Several New Yorkers refuse to get out of my way and get run over. I literally knocked one asshole to the ground who refused to budge after I said excuse me to him 3 times so that I could pass.

I clocked another guy who was busy texting somebody and refused to let me by when I said excuse me. He ended up dropping his phone when I shoulder checked him and cursed me out.

We get to the bus and the bus takes 50 minutes to get us to the airport leaving us 10 minutes to spare. However, we have to check bags and there is a 3 hour long line at the terminal. Plus security was acting all crazy as someone earlier snuck a monkey onto a plane under his hat.

I make some calls to the airline begging for a new flight as we wait in line. Everything finally gets worked out and we get a new flight, get our bags checked and get through security.

We get on the plane and it turns out, it is oversold so we wait an hour and a half while they ask for volunteers to leave the plane. They weren't offering much money so there were no takers until someone just got fed up with the wait and got off the plane.

All in all we had a great trip. I got to know my girl much better and found out that we are really compatible. She still has some personal issues she has to get worked out before I would consider having a commitment with her but it is headed that way. Since my goal in learning pick up techniques is to eventually get married and have a family, this is a step in the right direction.

New York is a lot of fun but something has to be done about the bars. Poor beer choices, no Tuaca and expensive drinks won't cut it with this Texas boy. Plus, most bartenders don't know what is going on in town. If that is your profession, you should be in the know.

Finally, I wasn't all that impressed with the talent pool. We probably hit a total of 50 bars or clubs and only found hotties in a few places. Disappointing.

On the plus side, the food is great, the shopping is excellent, the show we went to was wonderful and there is tons to do. Its not my favorite place but would definitely go back again for a 4th time.

And for all of the single guys in NYC, you need to come to Texas to check out the women. Austin and Dallas show NYC up as far as talent goes. So does Arizona, L.A. and Vancouver....

After my girl and I get back to Dallas, we debate about going out but are on the fence. I text several buddies to see if they are out and can sway our decision. No one is out so we decide to stay in and drink wine and watch movies.

We crawl into bed, break out the toys I bought us again and have a fun, kinky night with just the two of us.

Day 24 - Peep Show

We sleep in again, grab a bite at another hole-in-the-wall and then hop on one of the double decker bus tours. This was a big waste of money especially after our long walk through NYC yesterday.

We end up at Battery Park and decide to take the Staton Island ferry so we can get some good pictures of the Statue of Liberty. As I am leaning against the ferry rail taking pictures, some French dude kind of nudges me aside so he can get some pics. This wouldn't have bothered me if it was crowded but there is lot of space at the rail on both sides of me.

I shove him back out of my way and say excuse me but I was standing here. He says "I know, sorry..." and pushes me back. I am a lot bigger than him so I turn to confront him. He backs down and slides down the ferry rail a couple of feet. The irony of me almost giving some rude French dude an ass whooping in front of the Statue of Liberty given to us by the French was hilarious to me.

I start laughing and he starts giving me glaring looks. Then his wife and 2 kids get in on the action and glare at me too. I sneer back and laugh at them. Silly Frenchies!

We get back to Manhattan, grab a snack and then clean up to go to a show. The broadway show was great! We then head to a famous jazz club for some dirty martinis. We both have a buzz on and since this is our last night in NYC, I decide we should go big.

We go into a sex shop so that I can buy her a toy or two. Inside the shop are signs for real girls upstairs. We go check out the peep show and then come back down. I am sure we stood out - a very well dressed couple, her in an elegant dress, in some seedy sex shop.

We head back to the hotel, drop off our toy, grab some pizza at a run down pizza joint, again looking out of place as well dressed as we were, and then hit the town again.

At one of the bars, we catch word of a movie being filmed in the Meatpacking district. We head over and it is a new Adam Sandler film. The place is crawling with security so we can't get too great of a view so we head to P.M., another pretty people bar.

There is a long line but we confidentally walk up to the velvet rope. The bouncer sizes us up and says he will let us in for a $20 cover. I agree and he ushers us in. I overhear a group behind us saying they would pay $20 to get in too and the bouncer declines and says they are not getting in. I love NY!

The bar is happening but the drinks are outrageous. Two red bull vodkas costs us $32. WTF!?!? We saw several models in there - over 6" tall, beautiful women. Most of them were standing alone or with just another girl and no guys were approaching. After our fight Monday night, I had no intention of opening them although I would have loved the chance otherwise.

As we are going home tomorrow, I decide to seed my week and start texting some girlies I am working. The Asian tease I have been playing with texts me some naughty texts and wants to know when I will be back in town. I also line up a date with the girl I met last Monday and have only kissed so far.

We head back to the hotel before we spend too much hard earned cash. I bring out the toys for a fun rest of the evening. She accusing me of trying to turn her into a dirty girl but was into everything we did. I KNOW we had to wake up our neighbors with her screams of pleasure.

Day 23 - Busted

We sleep in from our Sunday Funday festivities. We wake up for some morning breath sex and then head out at for a mid afternoon lunch. We walk by several hole-in-the-walls again but none catch our eye so we head to little Italy.

We eat, shop, walk through Chinatown into the Financial District and then to Battery Park. My girly is HOT and very well built. Every guy that we walk past checks her out. Some even do the turn around look as they pass. Makes me feel good parading my trophy around. Plus her and I really click.

We eventually get a taxi to Central Park and take a bike taxi tour through the park. We stop every so often for some pictures and make plans to come back without our bike escort to get frisky in the park.

The tour is over and we are hot, tired and hungry. We go to some nearby bar and grab a beer and some surprisingly good bar food.

We then head back to the hotel where she naps and I respond to some work emails and post on the TMM board on a NYC topic about what is good to do on Mondays. Then off to another night on the town.

This time we bounce to the Village area. We bar hop a bit until we get to this college bar. It is full of hot young coeds.

There are a couple of young guys from London standing near us. I open them up and start playfully teasing them because one is wearing the same shirt I am. We are having a good time when I decide it is time for Tuaca! Last night, we hit 9 bars and none of them had Tuaca! None! What kind of city is this?

Actually, this is my biggest rant about NYC. The drink selection at bars suck. There is normally only a couple of beer choices and they don't have many shot options. And the drinks are way overpriced.

However, we are in luck. This bar carries Tuaca! I loudly declare this my favorite place in NYC and the shots start flowing. I get the boys from London a couple as they have never had TUACA and then they buy us several of their favorite shots.

A good buzz is being had by all and our group of 4 is definitely having more fun than anyone else. This attacts some lovely ladies over to us.

It turns out that the London boys are kind of shy so I am running most of their game for them and whispering pointers into their ears. I am gaming vicariously through them.

However, being the "leader of men" attracts a couple of women to my side. I entertain them a bit and then merge our group into another group near us. And then I merge our big group into yet another one.

I am having a blast flirting with the girls, joking with the guys all the while holding my girl's hand. However, it becomes too much for my girl. She pulls me aside for a piece of her mind which with Tuaca and Tequila mixed in, becomes our first argument.

Yes I was flirting. However, I was also holding my girl's hand or rubbing her back the whole time. I probably should have been called out on it but not to the extent I was. She told me she is very insecure with how easily I talk to girls and that girls are always flirting with me wherever we go. This is coming from a hottie that every time I leave to go the bathroom or whatever, come back to find some guy working her. Sometimes the guys don't even wait for me to leave.

Instead of having a fight ruin our trip, I decide it is time to leave. We head back to the pretty people bar we went to last night and it is dead. However, outside is a limo so we ask the guy what is going on. He tells us there is another pretty people place however, it is a very hard line to get into.

We decide to skip it and walk to another bar in the area. It is dead so we hit another and it is dead too.

We go back to the limo driver and ask if he will take us to the happening place hoping that if we roll out of a limo, we can get in.

He takes us, we walk right up and as we are coming, they undo the velvet rope so it is a smooth transition in. The bouncer ushers us past the place where you have to pay cover so the limo ride really paid off.

The place is so crowded that it is almost not fun. We kept getting bumped and stepped on. It is also hot from all of the body heat. We try to dance but it is not happening so we grab a few drinks and head home.

We end up having sex again but we are both really tired and I don't think either of us finished.

Day 22 - Big Apple

We wake up at the ass crack of dawn and catch a flight to the big city.

We check into the hotel, break in the hotel bed, shower and head out on the town. We shopped and saw the sights stopping every hour at some bar for a drink. We end up heading down to Canal street and as we are stepping out of the cab, get accosted by some Asian lady that doesn't speak English. She is gesturing for us to follow her.

We are a little apprehensive but when in Rome....we follow her around a corner, through some alley into an abandoned building. We probably would have turned around but we saw another couple walk out of the building in one piece so we figured it was OK.

She takes us up some stairs, through an empty floor, up some more stairs to this unmarked door. She unlocks it and quickly ushers us in and then zips away. Inside are hundreds of knock off purses, shoes, shirt, jewelry, etc.

We do some bargain shopping and then attempt to leave. We are stopped at the door by an Asian man that also didn't speak English. He says one word - "police" - and then the whole room gets quiet.

We wait in silence for about 10 minutes when he gets a chirp on his walkie talkie and he ushers us out.

After a lot of walking, some bargain shopping and a good buzz, we head back to the hotel for a quickie and a shower.

We then change and head out on the town. We decide that we aren't going to try any of the fancy restaurants but take our chances at hole-in-the-walls instead.

There is this cute looking Italian restaurant near one of the broadway theaters. However, no one is in it. It is completely empty. We decide to take our chances and give it a try. It is one of the best meals I have had! As we are leaving, we see a queue of people lined up to go into a show. We tell them how great the restaurant is so that it gets some business. One good deed done for the day!

We then proceed to bar hop. As it is Sunday night, the clubs are hit or miss. Mostly miss. We go from bar to bar, club to club each time asking for a reference for what is good on Sunday nights from the bartendars.

We finally end up at this Salsa club in midtown. It is happening but not our scene. We ask the bartendar where we should go next and she refers us to this "pretty people" place that she thinks we would find suites our style. We hop in a taxi and go to the club.

The place has a line but we confidentally walk up to the side of the velvet rope and they usher us right in. It pays to dress for success and have a hottie at your side!

The club is great! Hot women, good music and a dance floor. My girl and I dance some and then when her feet hurt, we sit down and people watch. My girl doesn't mind when I point out hot women so I point a few out and so does she. One of the ones I pointed out coincidentally drifts over to us. I open her up and she sits and talks with us for a while.

We stay until the wee hours of the morning and head back to the hotel for some drunken sex before we pass out.

Sunday, August 5, 2007

Day 21 - Quiet night

My girl from South Texas comes into town. We go to a BBQ and a show. We had plans to go out partying with my buddy Vodka and his girlfriend but decide to stay in, get frisky and catch a good night's rest before our trip.

Day 20 - Battle

Today is one of the more stressful days I have had at work in a long time. Top it off with not much sleep for the week makes for a tired Twitchy.

I have been working at closing this huge deal for our company which fell through today and then I miraculously saved it. 6pm rolls around and all I want to do is go home and sleep but the CEO comes by and says he wants to take me out for a few drinks. Who can resist that?

We grab a few and chit chat and then I head home. I am about to crawl into bed around 8pm when my phone starts blowing up. Friends, girls I am pursuing, girls I am dating and even my mother call.

I am about to shut off the phone when the ex I have been hanging around again lately calls. I tell her I am too tired to do anything and she says that she will take me to dinner, give me a nice massage, we can have sex and then I can get a good night's sleep. I am in, pound a red bull and drive to her place.

We go to dinner and she is being kind of bitchy. I call her on it and she calms down. After dinner, she tells me she wants to stop by a bar for 1 drink before going home. I haven't quite caught a second wind but definitely have more energy after getting some food in me so I agree.

We go to this bar that has a nice patio with beds to sit on. We grab a drink, grab a bed and chit chat. She pounds her first drink and then grabs another. This gets her frisky so we start making out on the bed.

She then rather abuptly quits and says that she can tell I am not into it. And then starts picking arguments about several other things that happened in our past.

I could go on and on over all of the little fights she started but suffice to say, she pissed me off and I quit taking it and fought back.

We eventually leave still bickering at each other. The bar we went to is near my house so I ask her if she is going to stay at mine or does she want to go back to hers. She starts a fight over me asking this question instead of just making a decision and I give up for the evening.

I tell her there is no way in hell I am spending the night with her acting this way and start driving to her house which is 25 minutes away. I get an earful the entire way.

At her house, she jumps out of the car and storms to her door. I still have absolutely no idea of what the fighting was about. Nor why she started them...

I should have just stayed in bed.

Thursday, August 2, 2007

Day 19 - Finish What You Started

I wake up tired and drag myself to work. Working out, a high demand job and doing the 30 day challenge are tough on these old bones.

I had a lunch date with the girl I number closed and made out with on Monday. I went to pick her up at her work and before I found my girl, one of her coworkers (who didn't know who I was) started some very obvious flirting with me. As I was talking to her, my date showed up and gave her coworker the dagger eyes.

We leave and her coworkers texts her "He is fine! Where did you find him? Are there more like him there?"

I have my hand on her thigh as we drive to this kick ass Vietnamese restaurant. We get there and the dude directs us to a table. I make sure I sit next to her so I can kino her while eat but she thwarts my plans by saying there was too much air blowing on her so we get moved to a 2-top.

I flirt through lunch and continue the "naughty" teasing I started when we first met a couple of days ago. I tease her about being a bad girl, how her middle name must "naughty", how I know she is having trouble eating because she is fantasizing about what she wants to do to me, to stop undressing me with her eyes, etc. Oh, and we have some comfort conversation too. I am maintaining intense eye contact through all of our discussion.

Lunch is over and she wants to swing by a sandwich place to pick up sandwiches for her coworkers. We get there and it turns out they don't take credit cards (its a hole the wall) and she only has $5. She asks if she can borrow some money. I tell her sure but she owes me. She gives me a kiss and then rubs and scratches my back while they make the sandwiches. Debt paid.

I drive her back to work while holding hands in the car. I walk her in and all of her coworkers are checking us out. She goes to give me a quick hug and then pulls away obviously embarrased by being the center of attention. As she tries to slide away, I grab her hand, forcefully pull her back to me, grab her hair and pull her head back and plant a big kiss on her. She kisses me back and moans a little bit and then rushes away embarrased.

She texts me later that for some reason, I make her shy and that she can't wait to see me again when her coworkers aren't around. I call this date a success!

I get back to work and get a text from the Asian from last night. She is texting from her friend's phone so that I can't see her number. She apologizes for leaving me hanging twice now and wants to make it up to me tonight. I tell her I have dinner plans and that if I get done in time, I might see her. She begs me to come out and I tell her I will if she wears a skirt with no panties. She agrees.

I have a happy hour date lined up with the girl from http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/07/day-8-happy-birthday-to-me.html but am going to have to work late so I email her and cancel. She wants to meet up later but I can't as I have a dinner date lined up. She wants to make plans for this weekend and I tell her that my weekend is pretty full but we can talk about it tomorrow. She tells me she is sorry for always whining about wanting to see me and that she will stop whining so that I will want to spend more time with her. I love it - I blow her off and she apologizes to me....

In the late afternoon, 3 other girls I am working call me and want to know if I would meet them for happy hour and/or dinner. Just putting myseslf out there day after day really seems to be really paying off in the dating department. I regretfully decline all of the date requests with hope that we can raincheck for a later date.

Then my former one-it-is calls and wants me to go to dinner and then to a party with her. I tell her I have plans but that we need to catch up soon. Last week she dropped the "why aren't we dating?" bomb on me and we have never really discussed her comment.

I finally get off work around 7:30pm and drive home. My date is across the street at a store waiting for me and immediately comes over when I call. We go grab drinks, then dinner, then drinks and then head to my place.

We go inside and start making out. I suggest that we go into my room when sure enough, my roommate comes home. Roommate is about 50/50 now with either blowing out my dates or setting me up with her friends. God bless her.....

Roommate and my date get into an in depth girlie conversation so I ignore both of them and start playing on the computer. So much for this date ending with a bang. Roommate finally goes into her room and my date leaves.

I shower quick, call my sweetie from south Texas and my ex I have been hanging around lately. Ex asks me to come over to spend the night and I debate about doing it when a text from the Asian tease comes in. She wants to meet up. I have been blue balled twice by her now and decide that I am going to try one more time and if I fail, to give her up.

I show up at the bar and the gang is all here - Sinn, Capt Jack, Printer, Juice, Future and Asian tease and her friend. Asian immediately comes over and gives me a big hug while I decide what strategy I am going to try with her tonight. Asian is NOT wearing the skirt I asked her to and instead has these little hot shorts on. I give her a hard time about that.

I end up in conversation with Capt Jack when Future rolls over and tells me I need to start gaming Asian or give her up as he wants to go after her. I go over to her and a makeout ensues. Game on yet again!

We spend the next hour all over each other. She has her hand in my pocket rubbing Lil Twitch when I get a text from Sinn: "dude if u wanna get laid push that bitch off. you're chasing her WAY too hard."

I text Sinn back: "She is not gonna do anything. A tease"

Why did I feel I should reject the advice of one of the world's best pick up artists? Because I had tried take-aways many times before with her and they didn't work. She keeps telling me how horny I make her, how wet she gets when she thinks of me, how I must be able to get any girl I want, etc. so I KNOW she is into me. In my mind, I think I am just going to have to wear this one down. There are exceptions.....they can't all be textbook pick ups.

Shortly afterwards, Future, another one of the best, gives me the same sound advice Sinn did. He told me I need to give her the sense of loss - active disinterest. That I was providing her with what she wanted (attention, sexual turn on) and there was no incentive for her to progress the relationship because she was already getting what she wanted from me. She was leading.

I always respect and appreciate constructive criticism - how else can you learn. I started thinking back to the take-aways I had done with her in the past and realized that they were fake take-aways. They were more of a tease than a real take-away that would generate a sense of loss. She could probably see right through them.

Thank you Future and Sinn for helping me out!

Someone once told me that the definition of insanity is going the same things over and over and expecting a different result. I realized that with my busy schedule, I wasn't going to put up with her teasing much longer and I might as well go for broke and let her know this was it.

I excuse myself to go to the bathroom and make a lazy lap around the bar. I end up opening a 3 set of girls near the mechanical bull and convince them to all get on the bull together. I watch the show and then head to the center bar where I see a friend of a friend. He is surrounded by some cuties so I start talking to them. One of them shows attraction so I flirt with her for a bit and then excuse myself to go catch up with my friends with a mental note to come back to her.

This is what I call a short set - spike attraction, leave, come back later. I do these often and they work for me. When you come back later, you are no longer a "random guy" or a creepy guy who will hound her all night long. You enter at a higher level in her eyes when you leave and return and it gives you less chance to screw things up by saying or doing something stupid while you are plowing through your routines.

I then go by the band and watch them play for a while before meandering back to our group.

Asian confronts me about why I left her for so long. I tell her I was talking to some girls I had just met. I then tell her that I realized that if I kept hanging around while she constantly teased me, I am always going to remain single and never find a girlfriend. She tries to kiss me again and I am unresponsive. She is hurt by my comment and gets stand-off-ish. I use this opportunity to take away even more so I back turn her, hang out with the boys and start pointing out hot girls to Capt Jack and Juice.

She eventually comes over and tells me she is not a tease and and starts kissing me again. It is about 1am and she mentions that she would like to get out of there. Her friend agrees that it is time to leave. I tell them bye and that I doubt I will ever see her again.

Once again, she is hurt by my comments and wants to know why I won't see her anymore. I tell her it is because she is all talk and tease and no action. I explain that although I like to tease, it is clear my teasing happens along a sexual seduction journey that will eventually lead somewhere. Her teasing is just ramping me up and abandoning me which is disrespectful. I am a busy guy and don't need to put up with it anymore.

She tells me that I am off base and that she just moves slow. I tell her that is fine but this is the end of the road for me. She asks me to leave with them. I decide I need to get friend's approval or I have no chance as they rode together again. I go over to Asian's friend and tell her that Asian is leaving with me, not her. Friend says that is fine but that she is coming to my house too but will stay on the couch while we "hang out" in the bedroom. Asian agrees.

We go outside and Asian hesitates. I confidentally escort her to my car with my hand on her back while she is looking over her shoulder longingly at her friend's car. I open the door and guide her in with my hand on her back and then shut the door.

We drive off with Friend following us. We get to my house and Friend pulls me aside. She tells me she is all for me showing Asian a good time but that I need to be good to her. Friend tells me she really likes me and can tell I am not like most other guys. She asks for a good TV show, a blanket, some water and that we don't keep her waiting longer than 2:30 am.

I can tell Asian is nervous so I pour us a drink and give her a tour of the place with some fluff talk. I show her the pictures I took, where I got some of the nick nacks I have in my place and talk about some of the places I have traveled. She gets more comfortable and we end up making out in the kitchen. Things then start to get hot and heavy. She undoes my pants and starts to give me yet another handjob. I have my hands all over her. I glance at the clock and find that it is 2:15. I look over and Friend is nodding off.

I tell Asian that I am not going to sleep with her (to avoid LMR) as we don't have nearly enough time and then grab her hand and drag her into my bedroom and shut the door. She pulls me to the bed and I lay on top of her. I hot makeout ensues while she pulls my pants and underwear down to my thighs and reinitiates the hand job.

I slowly work my way down, remove her shorts and underwear and then go down on her. She doesn't do anything to stop me or slow me down and actually helps me remove her panties. She starts moaning and then comes very quickly. She tells me she can tell I am very experienced as that is the best licking she has ever received.

She then rolls me over and starts to return the favor. She works Lil Twitch for a while but isn't quite using the pressure or technique I am used to with my ex. Altough she is good, programming is hard to break and I can tell I am going to be a VERY long time finishing and our clock is ticking so I pull her back up to me.

She is kissing on my chest as she reaches down, grabs Lil Twitch and gets ready to mount me. However, from where we are at, I can't reach my condoms. I adjust us on the bed so that I can grab at my condoms when there is a knock on the door from Friend telling us our time is up effectively killing the mood.

We dress and I walk them out. I give Friend a big hug and then make out one last time with Asian. She tells me she thinks I am amazing and can't wait to see me again so we can finish what she started. She gives me her number and asks me to call her. Finally!