I have been giving a lot of thought in regards to the pick up community. My day-to-day job is to help companies/projects run more efficiently and I am very successful at what I do. Lately, I have been applying some of my efficiency disciplines to my favorite hobby - seduction.
I had an epiphany a couple of weeks ago and have been vetting it against my usual wing who has a PHD in psychology and ran a relationship and marriage counseling practice for many, many years.
How many of YOU are there? There is only one you of course. My realization is that all or at least the majority of the pick up companies/methodologies focus just on YOUR skills. These skills are of course very important however, they can only be implemented and enacted by you. And only during your free time.
This greatly limits your exposure to the amount of quality women you desire to meet. It comes down to the effort that can give or the free time that you have.
What if you had a system in place that brought women to you?
I was asked recently to dissect my "game" to teach it to someone wanting to learn from my success. As simple a question as this was, it actually took me to a while to discern the steps I take as I have internalized much of what I do in regards to dating.
What I realized is that although I definitely have a "methodology" I follow when talking to a girl or girls, what is much more effective is the "system" or lifestyle I have enacted in my life which results in much of the "work" being done for me. In fact, I would say that 70% to 80% of the women I date actually approach me or make the moves on me first. And somewhere in the ball park of 90% of the sexual interactions I have - whether they be the first time I am with a girl or during a long term relationship - are initiated by the girl.
This system allows me to choose from the very attractive, successful women flirting with me versus having to exude the effort to seek out the women I may desire.
More on this subject later. Let me know if you are interested in hearing more about my ideas.
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No, we're not interested. Please go back to talking about butt implants.
Yes, I'd like to know how you go to this point. I used to lurk on the Another Seduction Forum a few years back and wasn't getting anywhere. That was more me of course, but I've made a lot of progress in the last 6 months without relying on the "community".
I started working in a women's clothing store and that allows me to come in contact with many women whenever I work. I've also been listening to Nathaniel Branden.
http://tinyurl.com/2felg7
http://tinyurl.com/yst2pm
He's a psychotherapist and former memeber of Ayn Rand's Collective. Just excellent.
Very interested. I too work a very demanding office job, which means I don't have a lot of free time. So I would be very interested to hear how you are able to do this.
Damn you. Speak.
Also like to add I'm considering a job in biotech/sales (put that degree to use, lol). I'd like to do consulting after a few years. Please, share your ideas with us.
Regards,
Harold
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