Thursday, January 31, 2008
How many of YOU are there?
I have been giving a lot of thought in regards to the pick up community. My day-to-day job is to help companies/projects run more efficiently and I am very successful at what I do. Lately, I have been applying some of my efficiency disciplines to my favorite hobby - seduction.
I had an epiphany a couple of weeks ago and have been vetting it against my usual wing who has a PHD in psychology and ran a relationship and marriage counseling practice for many, many years.
How many of YOU are there? There is only one you of course. My realization is that all or at least the majority of the pick up companies/methodologies focus just on YOUR skills. These skills are of course very important however, they can only be implemented and enacted by you. And only during your free time.
This greatly limits your exposure to the amount of quality women you desire to meet. It comes down to the effort that can give or the free time that you have.
What if you had a system in place that brought women to you?
I was asked recently to dissect my "game" to teach it to someone wanting to learn from my success. As simple a question as this was, it actually took me to a while to discern the steps I take as I have internalized much of what I do in regards to dating.
What I realized is that although I definitely have a "methodology" I follow when talking to a girl or girls, what is much more effective is the "system" or lifestyle I have enacted in my life which results in much of the "work" being done for me. In fact, I would say that 70% to 80% of the women I date actually approach me or make the moves on me first. And somewhere in the ball park of 90% of the sexual interactions I have - whether they be the first time I am with a girl or during a long term relationship - are initiated by the girl.
This system allows me to choose from the very attractive, successful women flirting with me versus having to exude the effort to seek out the women I may desire.
More on this subject later. Let me know if you are interested in hearing more about my ideas.
I had an epiphany a couple of weeks ago and have been vetting it against my usual wing who has a PHD in psychology and ran a relationship and marriage counseling practice for many, many years.
How many of YOU are there? There is only one you of course. My realization is that all or at least the majority of the pick up companies/methodologies focus just on YOUR skills. These skills are of course very important however, they can only be implemented and enacted by you. And only during your free time.
This greatly limits your exposure to the amount of quality women you desire to meet. It comes down to the effort that can give or the free time that you have.
What if you had a system in place that brought women to you?
I was asked recently to dissect my "game" to teach it to someone wanting to learn from my success. As simple a question as this was, it actually took me to a while to discern the steps I take as I have internalized much of what I do in regards to dating.
What I realized is that although I definitely have a "methodology" I follow when talking to a girl or girls, what is much more effective is the "system" or lifestyle I have enacted in my life which results in much of the "work" being done for me. In fact, I would say that 70% to 80% of the women I date actually approach me or make the moves on me first. And somewhere in the ball park of 90% of the sexual interactions I have - whether they be the first time I am with a girl or during a long term relationship - are initiated by the girl.
This system allows me to choose from the very attractive, successful women flirting with me versus having to exude the effort to seek out the women I may desire.
More on this subject later. Let me know if you are interested in hearing more about my ideas.
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Monday, January 28, 2008
Sunday, January 27, 2008
Get a grip
Published in Business Week in the Dec 3, 2007 issue. Article by Catherine Arnst
"Get a Grip"
Sizing up the new guy at work? Check out his handshake. The firmer it is, the more socially dominant he's likely to be, concludes a small study led by psychologist Gordon Gallup of the State University of New York at Albany. The study, which analyzed the handshakes - and the sexual, social and physical histories - of 140 college students, found no correlation for females between a strong grip and behavioral competitiveness or body type. (As with men, there was a link to good health.) But males with firm grips reported more aggressive behavior and were more likley to have broad shoulders and narrow hips. (There were also about 10% more promiscouos.) Gallup says a grip's strength is 35% environmental, 65% genetic - and that a strong claps may have evolved from human's deep past, when tree-swinging monkeys with weak grips fell to earth more often.
"Get a Grip"
Sizing up the new guy at work? Check out his handshake. The firmer it is, the more socially dominant he's likely to be, concludes a small study led by psychologist Gordon Gallup of the State University of New York at Albany. The study, which analyzed the handshakes - and the sexual, social and physical histories - of 140 college students, found no correlation for females between a strong grip and behavioral competitiveness or body type. (As with men, there was a link to good health.) But males with firm grips reported more aggressive behavior and were more likley to have broad shoulders and narrow hips. (There were also about 10% more promiscouos.) Gallup says a grip's strength is 35% environmental, 65% genetic - and that a strong claps may have evolved from human's deep past, when tree-swinging monkeys with weak grips fell to earth more often.
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Sales as seduction
I think Geoffrey James wrote this post just so I would put it on my blog. =)
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=219
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=219
Saturday, January 19, 2008
Thursday, January 17, 2008
How to ask for a new contact
It's been a while since I referenced anything from Geoffrey James. This is a very good article...
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=216
http://blogs.bnet.com/salesmachine/?p=216
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Quote of the day
"The easiest thing in the world to be is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position."
Leo Buscaglia
Leo Buscaglia
Monday, January 14, 2008
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
What are you doing here?
Divorcing? I think they are meant for each other....
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20080109/od_nm/brothel_dc_1;_ylt=AnkmHQJzoDOoi4R1Kc0kEJEE1vAI
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20080109/od_nm/brothel_dc_1;_ylt=AnkmHQJzoDOoi4R1Kc0kEJEE1vAI
Monday, January 7, 2008
I would marry her in a New York minute!
I was looking through my computer for a document I wrote several years ago and stumbled across this AWESOME craig's list post I had saved.
"RAVE: I give head like a pornstar"
posted by anon-110575058@craigslist.org on Nov 11, 2005.
Everyone I've ever given head to says its the best they've ever had. Well ladies this is why so try and make your man happy.
1.I LOVE to do it. It absolutely turns me on more than recieving it. I will even feel myselt start to drip.
2.I look up at him while I'm doing it so he knows I'm loving it. You give him the eyes or that "i fucking love this" face. Literally devour him. Act like you can't get enough of his cock.
3.I spend a lot of time licking and sucking his balls while using my hands on him and looking him in the eye... Also--yes I'll perform a "hummer" if you will
4.Of course I SWALLOW.. but I also allow him to pull back, jerk into my open waiting mouth and onto my tits.
5.I always give while on my knees.. He's either standing up over me holding my hair or he might be sitting on the couch. Either way at some point I will take my breasts and wrap them around his shaft and fuck it while I suck his head. This way he also gets to watch your ass wiggling.
6.Yes, I have let him give me a pearl necklace. In that case I lick the cum off of my tits and I have him feed it to me off of his fingers.
7.I'll talk dirty to him a little bit. Tell him I don't want him to cum yet because I'm not ready, or that I love the way his hard cock feels in my mouth.. I take my time--he better be prepared to sit there for at least a half hour probably more.
8.I love to lick and tickle under his balls. THe "taint" if you will. Or I'll use my thumb to apply light pressure in circular motions or going up and down. I'll go lower and lower down to the ass if he lets me. If he's enjoying it, yes I will rim, and yes I have fingered his ass.
9.When I'm getting really turned on, I'll reach between my legs and play with myself in front of him. Then I'll take my soaking wet fingers rub my juice on his head and then suck it off. I'll also suck my fingers clean for him. If its someone I am dating or something then I've even gone so far as to climb onto him.. lower myself.. sit there for about 10 seconds then get back down on my knees and continue sucking.
10.I deep throat. There have been instances where I dont even realize he came because it's so far down my throat. If he gags me I keep going.
11.And its just general technique. I have a very busy tongue and I get him into a great rhythm building him up and slowing down to help prolong and intensify his orgasm. I love to flick my tongue back and forth around his sensitive ridge and all underneath it.
12.I also SUCK his cock head firmly letting it pass in and out of my mouth, so my lips run over him while he fucks my wet mouth.
13.I'll get him nice and wet and use my hand to stroke him in a counter-clockwise motion and then I suck on him going clockwise. The other hand goes to his nipples, balls etc.. but the combined sensations get him so hard.
14.When he's ready to cum thats when speed and intensity HAVE TO INCREASE. I bob up and down on him faster and faster and I let him thrust his hips too so I take him even deeper.
15.After he cums I'll continue to suck him slowing down intensity and speed, bringing him down from his orgasm until he stops me becuase he's so sensitive. And that is why I give head like a pornstar.
No, I am not a slut and I do not have STD's. I'm just a woman who likes to suck cock.
Men--there are other women out there like me so don't give up hope if you have never had great head.
"RAVE: I give head like a pornstar"
posted by anon-110575058@craigslist.org on Nov 11, 2005.
Everyone I've ever given head to says its the best they've ever had. Well ladies this is why so try and make your man happy.
1.I LOVE to do it. It absolutely turns me on more than recieving it. I will even feel myselt start to drip.
2.I look up at him while I'm doing it so he knows I'm loving it. You give him the eyes or that "i fucking love this" face. Literally devour him. Act like you can't get enough of his cock.
3.I spend a lot of time licking and sucking his balls while using my hands on him and looking him in the eye... Also--yes I'll perform a "hummer" if you will
4.Of course I SWALLOW.. but I also allow him to pull back, jerk into my open waiting mouth and onto my tits.
5.I always give while on my knees.. He's either standing up over me holding my hair or he might be sitting on the couch. Either way at some point I will take my breasts and wrap them around his shaft and fuck it while I suck his head. This way he also gets to watch your ass wiggling.
6.Yes, I have let him give me a pearl necklace. In that case I lick the cum off of my tits and I have him feed it to me off of his fingers.
7.I'll talk dirty to him a little bit. Tell him I don't want him to cum yet because I'm not ready, or that I love the way his hard cock feels in my mouth.. I take my time--he better be prepared to sit there for at least a half hour probably more.
8.I love to lick and tickle under his balls. THe "taint" if you will. Or I'll use my thumb to apply light pressure in circular motions or going up and down. I'll go lower and lower down to the ass if he lets me. If he's enjoying it, yes I will rim, and yes I have fingered his ass.
9.When I'm getting really turned on, I'll reach between my legs and play with myself in front of him. Then I'll take my soaking wet fingers rub my juice on his head and then suck it off. I'll also suck my fingers clean for him. If its someone I am dating or something then I've even gone so far as to climb onto him.. lower myself.. sit there for about 10 seconds then get back down on my knees and continue sucking.
10.I deep throat. There have been instances where I dont even realize he came because it's so far down my throat. If he gags me I keep going.
11.And its just general technique. I have a very busy tongue and I get him into a great rhythm building him up and slowing down to help prolong and intensify his orgasm. I love to flick my tongue back and forth around his sensitive ridge and all underneath it.
12.I also SUCK his cock head firmly letting it pass in and out of my mouth, so my lips run over him while he fucks my wet mouth.
13.I'll get him nice and wet and use my hand to stroke him in a counter-clockwise motion and then I suck on him going clockwise. The other hand goes to his nipples, balls etc.. but the combined sensations get him so hard.
14.When he's ready to cum thats when speed and intensity HAVE TO INCREASE. I bob up and down on him faster and faster and I let him thrust his hips too so I take him even deeper.
15.After he cums I'll continue to suck him slowing down intensity and speed, bringing him down from his orgasm until he stops me becuase he's so sensitive. And that is why I give head like a pornstar.
No, I am not a slut and I do not have STD's. I'm just a woman who likes to suck cock.
Men--there are other women out there like me so don't give up hope if you have never had great head.
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