We sleep in again, grab a bite at another hole-in-the-wall and then hop on one of the double decker bus tours. This was a big waste of money especially after our long walk through NYC yesterday.
We end up at Battery Park and decide to take the Staton Island ferry so we can get some good pictures of the Statue of Liberty. As I am leaning against the ferry rail taking pictures, some French dude kind of nudges me aside so he can get some pics. This wouldn't have bothered me if it was crowded but there is lot of space at the rail on both sides of me.
I shove him back out of my way and say excuse me but I was standing here. He says "I know, sorry..." and pushes me back. I am a lot bigger than him so I turn to confront him. He backs down and slides down the ferry rail a couple of feet. The irony of me almost giving some rude French dude an ass whooping in front of the Statue of Liberty given to us by the French was hilarious to me.
I start laughing and he starts giving me glaring looks. Then his wife and 2 kids get in on the action and glare at me too. I sneer back and laugh at them. Silly Frenchies!
We get back to Manhattan, grab a snack and then clean up to go to a show. The broadway show was great! We then head to a famous jazz club for some dirty martinis. We both have a buzz on and since this is our last night in NYC, I decide we should go big.
We go into a sex shop so that I can buy her a toy or two. Inside the shop are signs for real girls upstairs. We go check out the peep show and then come back down. I am sure we stood out - a very well dressed couple, her in an elegant dress, in some seedy sex shop.
We head back to the hotel, drop off our toy, grab some pizza at a run down pizza joint, again looking out of place as well dressed as we were, and then hit the town again.
At one of the bars, we catch word of a movie being filmed in the Meatpacking district. We head over and it is a new Adam Sandler film. The place is crawling with security so we can't get too great of a view so we head to P.M., another pretty people bar.
There is a long line but we confidentally walk up to the velvet rope. The bouncer sizes us up and says he will let us in for a $20 cover. I agree and he ushers us in. I overhear a group behind us saying they would pay $20 to get in too and the bouncer declines and says they are not getting in. I love NY!
The bar is happening but the drinks are outrageous. Two red bull vodkas costs us $32. WTF!?!? We saw several models in there - over 6" tall, beautiful women. Most of them were standing alone or with just another girl and no guys were approaching. After our fight Monday night, I had no intention of opening them although I would have loved the chance otherwise.
As we are going home tomorrow, I decide to seed my week and start texting some girlies I am working. The Asian tease I have been playing with texts me some naughty texts and wants to know when I will be back in town. I also line up a date with the girl I met last Monday and have only kissed so far.
We head back to the hotel before we spend too much hard earned cash. I bring out the toys for a fun rest of the evening. She accusing me of trying to turn her into a dirty girl but was into everything we did. I KNOW we had to wake up our neighbors with her screams of pleasure.
Thursday, August 9, 2007
Day 23 - Busted
We sleep in from our Sunday Funday festivities. We wake up for some morning breath sex and then head out at for a mid afternoon lunch. We walk by several hole-in-the-walls again but none catch our eye so we head to little Italy.
We eat, shop, walk through Chinatown into the Financial District and then to Battery Park. My girly is HOT and very well built. Every guy that we walk past checks her out. Some even do the turn around look as they pass. Makes me feel good parading my trophy around. Plus her and I really click.
We eventually get a taxi to Central Park and take a bike taxi tour through the park. We stop every so often for some pictures and make plans to come back without our bike escort to get frisky in the park.
The tour is over and we are hot, tired and hungry. We go to some nearby bar and grab a beer and some surprisingly good bar food.
We then head back to the hotel where she naps and I respond to some work emails and post on the TMM board on a NYC topic about what is good to do on Mondays. Then off to another night on the town.
This time we bounce to the Village area. We bar hop a bit until we get to this college bar. It is full of hot young coeds.
There are a couple of young guys from London standing near us. I open them up and start playfully teasing them because one is wearing the same shirt I am. We are having a good time when I decide it is time for Tuaca! Last night, we hit 9 bars and none of them had Tuaca! None! What kind of city is this?
Actually, this is my biggest rant about NYC. The drink selection at bars suck. There is normally only a couple of beer choices and they don't have many shot options. And the drinks are way overpriced.
However, we are in luck. This bar carries Tuaca! I loudly declare this my favorite place in NYC and the shots start flowing. I get the boys from London a couple as they have never had TUACA and then they buy us several of their favorite shots.
A good buzz is being had by all and our group of 4 is definitely having more fun than anyone else. This attacts some lovely ladies over to us.
It turns out that the London boys are kind of shy so I am running most of their game for them and whispering pointers into their ears. I am gaming vicariously through them.
However, being the "leader of men" attracts a couple of women to my side. I entertain them a bit and then merge our group into another group near us. And then I merge our big group into yet another one.
I am having a blast flirting with the girls, joking with the guys all the while holding my girl's hand. However, it becomes too much for my girl. She pulls me aside for a piece of her mind which with Tuaca and Tequila mixed in, becomes our first argument.
Yes I was flirting. However, I was also holding my girl's hand or rubbing her back the whole time. I probably should have been called out on it but not to the extent I was. She told me she is very insecure with how easily I talk to girls and that girls are always flirting with me wherever we go. This is coming from a hottie that every time I leave to go the bathroom or whatever, come back to find some guy working her. Sometimes the guys don't even wait for me to leave.
Instead of having a fight ruin our trip, I decide it is time to leave. We head back to the pretty people bar we went to last night and it is dead. However, outside is a limo so we ask the guy what is going on. He tells us there is another pretty people place however, it is a very hard line to get into.
We decide to skip it and walk to another bar in the area. It is dead so we hit another and it is dead too.
We go back to the limo driver and ask if he will take us to the happening place hoping that if we roll out of a limo, we can get in.
He takes us, we walk right up and as we are coming, they undo the velvet rope so it is a smooth transition in. The bouncer ushers us past the place where you have to pay cover so the limo ride really paid off.
The place is so crowded that it is almost not fun. We kept getting bumped and stepped on. It is also hot from all of the body heat. We try to dance but it is not happening so we grab a few drinks and head home.
We end up having sex again but we are both really tired and I don't think either of us finished.
We eat, shop, walk through Chinatown into the Financial District and then to Battery Park. My girly is HOT and very well built. Every guy that we walk past checks her out. Some even do the turn around look as they pass. Makes me feel good parading my trophy around. Plus her and I really click.
We eventually get a taxi to Central Park and take a bike taxi tour through the park. We stop every so often for some pictures and make plans to come back without our bike escort to get frisky in the park.
The tour is over and we are hot, tired and hungry. We go to some nearby bar and grab a beer and some surprisingly good bar food.
We then head back to the hotel where she naps and I respond to some work emails and post on the TMM board on a NYC topic about what is good to do on Mondays. Then off to another night on the town.
This time we bounce to the Village area. We bar hop a bit until we get to this college bar. It is full of hot young coeds.
There are a couple of young guys from London standing near us. I open them up and start playfully teasing them because one is wearing the same shirt I am. We are having a good time when I decide it is time for Tuaca! Last night, we hit 9 bars and none of them had Tuaca! None! What kind of city is this?
Actually, this is my biggest rant about NYC. The drink selection at bars suck. There is normally only a couple of beer choices and they don't have many shot options. And the drinks are way overpriced.
However, we are in luck. This bar carries Tuaca! I loudly declare this my favorite place in NYC and the shots start flowing. I get the boys from London a couple as they have never had TUACA and then they buy us several of their favorite shots.
A good buzz is being had by all and our group of 4 is definitely having more fun than anyone else. This attacts some lovely ladies over to us.
It turns out that the London boys are kind of shy so I am running most of their game for them and whispering pointers into their ears. I am gaming vicariously through them.
However, being the "leader of men" attracts a couple of women to my side. I entertain them a bit and then merge our group into another group near us. And then I merge our big group into yet another one.
I am having a blast flirting with the girls, joking with the guys all the while holding my girl's hand. However, it becomes too much for my girl. She pulls me aside for a piece of her mind which with Tuaca and Tequila mixed in, becomes our first argument.
Yes I was flirting. However, I was also holding my girl's hand or rubbing her back the whole time. I probably should have been called out on it but not to the extent I was. She told me she is very insecure with how easily I talk to girls and that girls are always flirting with me wherever we go. This is coming from a hottie that every time I leave to go the bathroom or whatever, come back to find some guy working her. Sometimes the guys don't even wait for me to leave.
Instead of having a fight ruin our trip, I decide it is time to leave. We head back to the pretty people bar we went to last night and it is dead. However, outside is a limo so we ask the guy what is going on. He tells us there is another pretty people place however, it is a very hard line to get into.
We decide to skip it and walk to another bar in the area. It is dead so we hit another and it is dead too.
We go back to the limo driver and ask if he will take us to the happening place hoping that if we roll out of a limo, we can get in.
He takes us, we walk right up and as we are coming, they undo the velvet rope so it is a smooth transition in. The bouncer ushers us past the place where you have to pay cover so the limo ride really paid off.
The place is so crowded that it is almost not fun. We kept getting bumped and stepped on. It is also hot from all of the body heat. We try to dance but it is not happening so we grab a few drinks and head home.
We end up having sex again but we are both really tired and I don't think either of us finished.
Day 22 - Big Apple
We wake up at the ass crack of dawn and catch a flight to the big city.
We check into the hotel, break in the hotel bed, shower and head out on the town. We shopped and saw the sights stopping every hour at some bar for a drink. We end up heading down to Canal street and as we are stepping out of the cab, get accosted by some Asian lady that doesn't speak English. She is gesturing for us to follow her.
We are a little apprehensive but when in Rome....we follow her around a corner, through some alley into an abandoned building. We probably would have turned around but we saw another couple walk out of the building in one piece so we figured it was OK.
She takes us up some stairs, through an empty floor, up some more stairs to this unmarked door. She unlocks it and quickly ushers us in and then zips away. Inside are hundreds of knock off purses, shoes, shirt, jewelry, etc.
We do some bargain shopping and then attempt to leave. We are stopped at the door by an Asian man that also didn't speak English. He says one word - "police" - and then the whole room gets quiet.
We wait in silence for about 10 minutes when he gets a chirp on his walkie talkie and he ushers us out.
After a lot of walking, some bargain shopping and a good buzz, we head back to the hotel for a quickie and a shower.
We then change and head out on the town. We decide that we aren't going to try any of the fancy restaurants but take our chances at hole-in-the-walls instead.
There is this cute looking Italian restaurant near one of the broadway theaters. However, no one is in it. It is completely empty. We decide to take our chances and give it a try. It is one of the best meals I have had! As we are leaving, we see a queue of people lined up to go into a show. We tell them how great the restaurant is so that it gets some business. One good deed done for the day!
We then proceed to bar hop. As it is Sunday night, the clubs are hit or miss. Mostly miss. We go from bar to bar, club to club each time asking for a reference for what is good on Sunday nights from the bartendars.
We finally end up at this Salsa club in midtown. It is happening but not our scene. We ask the bartendar where we should go next and she refers us to this "pretty people" place that she thinks we would find suites our style. We hop in a taxi and go to the club.
The place has a line but we confidentally walk up to the side of the velvet rope and they usher us right in. It pays to dress for success and have a hottie at your side!
The club is great! Hot women, good music and a dance floor. My girl and I dance some and then when her feet hurt, we sit down and people watch. My girl doesn't mind when I point out hot women so I point a few out and so does she. One of the ones I pointed out coincidentally drifts over to us. I open her up and she sits and talks with us for a while.
We stay until the wee hours of the morning and head back to the hotel for some drunken sex before we pass out.
We check into the hotel, break in the hotel bed, shower and head out on the town. We shopped and saw the sights stopping every hour at some bar for a drink. We end up heading down to Canal street and as we are stepping out of the cab, get accosted by some Asian lady that doesn't speak English. She is gesturing for us to follow her.
We are a little apprehensive but when in Rome....we follow her around a corner, through some alley into an abandoned building. We probably would have turned around but we saw another couple walk out of the building in one piece so we figured it was OK.
She takes us up some stairs, through an empty floor, up some more stairs to this unmarked door. She unlocks it and quickly ushers us in and then zips away. Inside are hundreds of knock off purses, shoes, shirt, jewelry, etc.
We do some bargain shopping and then attempt to leave. We are stopped at the door by an Asian man that also didn't speak English. He says one word - "police" - and then the whole room gets quiet.
We wait in silence for about 10 minutes when he gets a chirp on his walkie talkie and he ushers us out.
After a lot of walking, some bargain shopping and a good buzz, we head back to the hotel for a quickie and a shower.
We then change and head out on the town. We decide that we aren't going to try any of the fancy restaurants but take our chances at hole-in-the-walls instead.
There is this cute looking Italian restaurant near one of the broadway theaters. However, no one is in it. It is completely empty. We decide to take our chances and give it a try. It is one of the best meals I have had! As we are leaving, we see a queue of people lined up to go into a show. We tell them how great the restaurant is so that it gets some business. One good deed done for the day!
We then proceed to bar hop. As it is Sunday night, the clubs are hit or miss. Mostly miss. We go from bar to bar, club to club each time asking for a reference for what is good on Sunday nights from the bartendars.
We finally end up at this Salsa club in midtown. It is happening but not our scene. We ask the bartendar where we should go next and she refers us to this "pretty people" place that she thinks we would find suites our style. We hop in a taxi and go to the club.
The place has a line but we confidentally walk up to the side of the velvet rope and they usher us right in. It pays to dress for success and have a hottie at your side!
The club is great! Hot women, good music and a dance floor. My girl and I dance some and then when her feet hurt, we sit down and people watch. My girl doesn't mind when I point out hot women so I point a few out and so does she. One of the ones I pointed out coincidentally drifts over to us. I open her up and she sits and talks with us for a while.
We stay until the wee hours of the morning and head back to the hotel for some drunken sex before we pass out.
Sunday, August 5, 2007
Day 21 - Quiet night
My girl from South Texas comes into town. We go to a BBQ and a show. We had plans to go out partying with my buddy Vodka and his girlfriend but decide to stay in, get frisky and catch a good night's rest before our trip.
Day 20 - Battle
Today is one of the more stressful days I have had at work in a long time. Top it off with not much sleep for the week makes for a tired Twitchy.
I have been working at closing this huge deal for our company which fell through today and then I miraculously saved it. 6pm rolls around and all I want to do is go home and sleep but the CEO comes by and says he wants to take me out for a few drinks. Who can resist that?
We grab a few and chit chat and then I head home. I am about to crawl into bed around 8pm when my phone starts blowing up. Friends, girls I am pursuing, girls I am dating and even my mother call.
I am about to shut off the phone when the ex I have been hanging around again lately calls. I tell her I am too tired to do anything and she says that she will take me to dinner, give me a nice massage, we can have sex and then I can get a good night's sleep. I am in, pound a red bull and drive to her place.
We go to dinner and she is being kind of bitchy. I call her on it and she calms down. After dinner, she tells me she wants to stop by a bar for 1 drink before going home. I haven't quite caught a second wind but definitely have more energy after getting some food in me so I agree.
We go to this bar that has a nice patio with beds to sit on. We grab a drink, grab a bed and chit chat. She pounds her first drink and then grabs another. This gets her frisky so we start making out on the bed.
She then rather abuptly quits and says that she can tell I am not into it. And then starts picking arguments about several other things that happened in our past.
I could go on and on over all of the little fights she started but suffice to say, she pissed me off and I quit taking it and fought back.
We eventually leave still bickering at each other. The bar we went to is near my house so I ask her if she is going to stay at mine or does she want to go back to hers. She starts a fight over me asking this question instead of just making a decision and I give up for the evening.
I tell her there is no way in hell I am spending the night with her acting this way and start driving to her house which is 25 minutes away. I get an earful the entire way.
At her house, she jumps out of the car and storms to her door. I still have absolutely no idea of what the fighting was about. Nor why she started them...
I should have just stayed in bed.
I have been working at closing this huge deal for our company which fell through today and then I miraculously saved it. 6pm rolls around and all I want to do is go home and sleep but the CEO comes by and says he wants to take me out for a few drinks. Who can resist that?
We grab a few and chit chat and then I head home. I am about to crawl into bed around 8pm when my phone starts blowing up. Friends, girls I am pursuing, girls I am dating and even my mother call.
I am about to shut off the phone when the ex I have been hanging around again lately calls. I tell her I am too tired to do anything and she says that she will take me to dinner, give me a nice massage, we can have sex and then I can get a good night's sleep. I am in, pound a red bull and drive to her place.
We go to dinner and she is being kind of bitchy. I call her on it and she calms down. After dinner, she tells me she wants to stop by a bar for 1 drink before going home. I haven't quite caught a second wind but definitely have more energy after getting some food in me so I agree.
We go to this bar that has a nice patio with beds to sit on. We grab a drink, grab a bed and chit chat. She pounds her first drink and then grabs another. This gets her frisky so we start making out on the bed.
She then rather abuptly quits and says that she can tell I am not into it. And then starts picking arguments about several other things that happened in our past.
I could go on and on over all of the little fights she started but suffice to say, she pissed me off and I quit taking it and fought back.
We eventually leave still bickering at each other. The bar we went to is near my house so I ask her if she is going to stay at mine or does she want to go back to hers. She starts a fight over me asking this question instead of just making a decision and I give up for the evening.
I tell her there is no way in hell I am spending the night with her acting this way and start driving to her house which is 25 minutes away. I get an earful the entire way.
At her house, she jumps out of the car and storms to her door. I still have absolutely no idea of what the fighting was about. Nor why she started them...
I should have just stayed in bed.
Thursday, August 2, 2007
Day 19 - Finish What You Started
I wake up tired and drag myself to work. Working out, a high demand job and doing the 30 day challenge are tough on these old bones.
I had a lunch date with the girl I number closed and made out with on Monday. I went to pick her up at her work and before I found my girl, one of her coworkers (who didn't know who I was) started some very obvious flirting with me. As I was talking to her, my date showed up and gave her coworker the dagger eyes.
We leave and her coworkers texts her "He is fine! Where did you find him? Are there more like him there?"
I have my hand on her thigh as we drive to this kick ass Vietnamese restaurant. We get there and the dude directs us to a table. I make sure I sit next to her so I can kino her while eat but she thwarts my plans by saying there was too much air blowing on her so we get moved to a 2-top.
I flirt through lunch and continue the "naughty" teasing I started when we first met a couple of days ago. I tease her about being a bad girl, how her middle name must "naughty", how I know she is having trouble eating because she is fantasizing about what she wants to do to me, to stop undressing me with her eyes, etc. Oh, and we have some comfort conversation too. I am maintaining intense eye contact through all of our discussion.
Lunch is over and she wants to swing by a sandwich place to pick up sandwiches for her coworkers. We get there and it turns out they don't take credit cards (its a hole the wall) and she only has $5. She asks if she can borrow some money. I tell her sure but she owes me. She gives me a kiss and then rubs and scratches my back while they make the sandwiches. Debt paid.
I drive her back to work while holding hands in the car. I walk her in and all of her coworkers are checking us out. She goes to give me a quick hug and then pulls away obviously embarrased by being the center of attention. As she tries to slide away, I grab her hand, forcefully pull her back to me, grab her hair and pull her head back and plant a big kiss on her. She kisses me back and moans a little bit and then rushes away embarrased.
She texts me later that for some reason, I make her shy and that she can't wait to see me again when her coworkers aren't around. I call this date a success!
I get back to work and get a text from the Asian from last night. She is texting from her friend's phone so that I can't see her number. She apologizes for leaving me hanging twice now and wants to make it up to me tonight. I tell her I have dinner plans and that if I get done in time, I might see her. She begs me to come out and I tell her I will if she wears a skirt with no panties. She agrees.
I have a happy hour date lined up with the girl from http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/07/day-8-happy-birthday-to-me.html but am going to have to work late so I email her and cancel. She wants to meet up later but I can't as I have a dinner date lined up. She wants to make plans for this weekend and I tell her that my weekend is pretty full but we can talk about it tomorrow. She tells me she is sorry for always whining about wanting to see me and that she will stop whining so that I will want to spend more time with her. I love it - I blow her off and she apologizes to me....
In the late afternoon, 3 other girls I am working call me and want to know if I would meet them for happy hour and/or dinner. Just putting myseslf out there day after day really seems to be really paying off in the dating department. I regretfully decline all of the date requests with hope that we can raincheck for a later date.
Then my former one-it-is calls and wants me to go to dinner and then to a party with her. I tell her I have plans but that we need to catch up soon. Last week she dropped the "why aren't we dating?" bomb on me and we have never really discussed her comment.
I finally get off work around 7:30pm and drive home. My date is across the street at a store waiting for me and immediately comes over when I call. We go grab drinks, then dinner, then drinks and then head to my place.
We go inside and start making out. I suggest that we go into my room when sure enough, my roommate comes home. Roommate is about 50/50 now with either blowing out my dates or setting me up with her friends. God bless her.....
Roommate and my date get into an in depth girlie conversation so I ignore both of them and start playing on the computer. So much for this date ending with a bang. Roommate finally goes into her room and my date leaves.
I shower quick, call my sweetie from south Texas and my ex I have been hanging around lately. Ex asks me to come over to spend the night and I debate about doing it when a text from the Asian tease comes in. She wants to meet up. I have been blue balled twice by her now and decide that I am going to try one more time and if I fail, to give her up.
I show up at the bar and the gang is all here - Sinn, Capt Jack, Printer, Juice, Future and Asian tease and her friend. Asian immediately comes over and gives me a big hug while I decide what strategy I am going to try with her tonight. Asian is NOT wearing the skirt I asked her to and instead has these little hot shorts on. I give her a hard time about that.
I end up in conversation with Capt Jack when Future rolls over and tells me I need to start gaming Asian or give her up as he wants to go after her. I go over to her and a makeout ensues. Game on yet again!
We spend the next hour all over each other. She has her hand in my pocket rubbing Lil Twitch when I get a text from Sinn: "dude if u wanna get laid push that bitch off. you're chasing her WAY too hard."
I text Sinn back: "She is not gonna do anything. A tease"
Why did I feel I should reject the advice of one of the world's best pick up artists? Because I had tried take-aways many times before with her and they didn't work. She keeps telling me how horny I make her, how wet she gets when she thinks of me, how I must be able to get any girl I want, etc. so I KNOW she is into me. In my mind, I think I am just going to have to wear this one down. There are exceptions.....they can't all be textbook pick ups.
Shortly afterwards, Future, another one of the best, gives me the same sound advice Sinn did. He told me I need to give her the sense of loss - active disinterest. That I was providing her with what she wanted (attention, sexual turn on) and there was no incentive for her to progress the relationship because she was already getting what she wanted from me. She was leading.
I always respect and appreciate constructive criticism - how else can you learn. I started thinking back to the take-aways I had done with her in the past and realized that they were fake take-aways. They were more of a tease than a real take-away that would generate a sense of loss. She could probably see right through them.
Thank you Future and Sinn for helping me out!
Someone once told me that the definition of insanity is going the same things over and over and expecting a different result. I realized that with my busy schedule, I wasn't going to put up with her teasing much longer and I might as well go for broke and let her know this was it.
I excuse myself to go to the bathroom and make a lazy lap around the bar. I end up opening a 3 set of girls near the mechanical bull and convince them to all get on the bull together. I watch the show and then head to the center bar where I see a friend of a friend. He is surrounded by some cuties so I start talking to them. One of them shows attraction so I flirt with her for a bit and then excuse myself to go catch up with my friends with a mental note to come back to her.
This is what I call a short set - spike attraction, leave, come back later. I do these often and they work for me. When you come back later, you are no longer a "random guy" or a creepy guy who will hound her all night long. You enter at a higher level in her eyes when you leave and return and it gives you less chance to screw things up by saying or doing something stupid while you are plowing through your routines.
I then go by the band and watch them play for a while before meandering back to our group.
Asian confronts me about why I left her for so long. I tell her I was talking to some girls I had just met. I then tell her that I realized that if I kept hanging around while she constantly teased me, I am always going to remain single and never find a girlfriend. She tries to kiss me again and I am unresponsive. She is hurt by my comment and gets stand-off-ish. I use this opportunity to take away even more so I back turn her, hang out with the boys and start pointing out hot girls to Capt Jack and Juice.
She eventually comes over and tells me she is not a tease and and starts kissing me again. It is about 1am and she mentions that she would like to get out of there. Her friend agrees that it is time to leave. I tell them bye and that I doubt I will ever see her again.
Once again, she is hurt by my comments and wants to know why I won't see her anymore. I tell her it is because she is all talk and tease and no action. I explain that although I like to tease, it is clear my teasing happens along a sexual seduction journey that will eventually lead somewhere. Her teasing is just ramping me up and abandoning me which is disrespectful. I am a busy guy and don't need to put up with it anymore.
She tells me that I am off base and that she just moves slow. I tell her that is fine but this is the end of the road for me. She asks me to leave with them. I decide I need to get friend's approval or I have no chance as they rode together again. I go over to Asian's friend and tell her that Asian is leaving with me, not her. Friend says that is fine but that she is coming to my house too but will stay on the couch while we "hang out" in the bedroom. Asian agrees.
We go outside and Asian hesitates. I confidentally escort her to my car with my hand on her back while she is looking over her shoulder longingly at her friend's car. I open the door and guide her in with my hand on her back and then shut the door.
We drive off with Friend following us. We get to my house and Friend pulls me aside. She tells me she is all for me showing Asian a good time but that I need to be good to her. Friend tells me she really likes me and can tell I am not like most other guys. She asks for a good TV show, a blanket, some water and that we don't keep her waiting longer than 2:30 am.
I can tell Asian is nervous so I pour us a drink and give her a tour of the place with some fluff talk. I show her the pictures I took, where I got some of the nick nacks I have in my place and talk about some of the places I have traveled. She gets more comfortable and we end up making out in the kitchen. Things then start to get hot and heavy. She undoes my pants and starts to give me yet another handjob. I have my hands all over her. I glance at the clock and find that it is 2:15. I look over and Friend is nodding off.
I tell Asian that I am not going to sleep with her (to avoid LMR) as we don't have nearly enough time and then grab her hand and drag her into my bedroom and shut the door. She pulls me to the bed and I lay on top of her. I hot makeout ensues while she pulls my pants and underwear down to my thighs and reinitiates the hand job.
I slowly work my way down, remove her shorts and underwear and then go down on her. She doesn't do anything to stop me or slow me down and actually helps me remove her panties. She starts moaning and then comes very quickly. She tells me she can tell I am very experienced as that is the best licking she has ever received.
She then rolls me over and starts to return the favor. She works Lil Twitch for a while but isn't quite using the pressure or technique I am used to with my ex. Altough she is good, programming is hard to break and I can tell I am going to be a VERY long time finishing and our clock is ticking so I pull her back up to me.
She is kissing on my chest as she reaches down, grabs Lil Twitch and gets ready to mount me. However, from where we are at, I can't reach my condoms. I adjust us on the bed so that I can grab at my condoms when there is a knock on the door from Friend telling us our time is up effectively killing the mood.
We dress and I walk them out. I give Friend a big hug and then make out one last time with Asian. She tells me she thinks I am amazing and can't wait to see me again so we can finish what she started. She gives me her number and asks me to call her. Finally!
I had a lunch date with the girl I number closed and made out with on Monday. I went to pick her up at her work and before I found my girl, one of her coworkers (who didn't know who I was) started some very obvious flirting with me. As I was talking to her, my date showed up and gave her coworker the dagger eyes.
We leave and her coworkers texts her "He is fine! Where did you find him? Are there more like him there?"
I have my hand on her thigh as we drive to this kick ass Vietnamese restaurant. We get there and the dude directs us to a table. I make sure I sit next to her so I can kino her while eat but she thwarts my plans by saying there was too much air blowing on her so we get moved to a 2-top.
I flirt through lunch and continue the "naughty" teasing I started when we first met a couple of days ago. I tease her about being a bad girl, how her middle name must "naughty", how I know she is having trouble eating because she is fantasizing about what she wants to do to me, to stop undressing me with her eyes, etc. Oh, and we have some comfort conversation too. I am maintaining intense eye contact through all of our discussion.
Lunch is over and she wants to swing by a sandwich place to pick up sandwiches for her coworkers. We get there and it turns out they don't take credit cards (its a hole the wall) and she only has $5. She asks if she can borrow some money. I tell her sure but she owes me. She gives me a kiss and then rubs and scratches my back while they make the sandwiches. Debt paid.
I drive her back to work while holding hands in the car. I walk her in and all of her coworkers are checking us out. She goes to give me a quick hug and then pulls away obviously embarrased by being the center of attention. As she tries to slide away, I grab her hand, forcefully pull her back to me, grab her hair and pull her head back and plant a big kiss on her. She kisses me back and moans a little bit and then rushes away embarrased.
She texts me later that for some reason, I make her shy and that she can't wait to see me again when her coworkers aren't around. I call this date a success!
I get back to work and get a text from the Asian from last night. She is texting from her friend's phone so that I can't see her number. She apologizes for leaving me hanging twice now and wants to make it up to me tonight. I tell her I have dinner plans and that if I get done in time, I might see her. She begs me to come out and I tell her I will if she wears a skirt with no panties. She agrees.
I have a happy hour date lined up with the girl from http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/07/day-8-happy-birthday-to-me.html but am going to have to work late so I email her and cancel. She wants to meet up later but I can't as I have a dinner date lined up. She wants to make plans for this weekend and I tell her that my weekend is pretty full but we can talk about it tomorrow. She tells me she is sorry for always whining about wanting to see me and that she will stop whining so that I will want to spend more time with her. I love it - I blow her off and she apologizes to me....
In the late afternoon, 3 other girls I am working call me and want to know if I would meet them for happy hour and/or dinner. Just putting myseslf out there day after day really seems to be really paying off in the dating department. I regretfully decline all of the date requests with hope that we can raincheck for a later date.
Then my former one-it-is calls and wants me to go to dinner and then to a party with her. I tell her I have plans but that we need to catch up soon. Last week she dropped the "why aren't we dating?" bomb on me and we have never really discussed her comment.
I finally get off work around 7:30pm and drive home. My date is across the street at a store waiting for me and immediately comes over when I call. We go grab drinks, then dinner, then drinks and then head to my place.
We go inside and start making out. I suggest that we go into my room when sure enough, my roommate comes home. Roommate is about 50/50 now with either blowing out my dates or setting me up with her friends. God bless her.....
Roommate and my date get into an in depth girlie conversation so I ignore both of them and start playing on the computer. So much for this date ending with a bang. Roommate finally goes into her room and my date leaves.
I shower quick, call my sweetie from south Texas and my ex I have been hanging around lately. Ex asks me to come over to spend the night and I debate about doing it when a text from the Asian tease comes in. She wants to meet up. I have been blue balled twice by her now and decide that I am going to try one more time and if I fail, to give her up.
I show up at the bar and the gang is all here - Sinn, Capt Jack, Printer, Juice, Future and Asian tease and her friend. Asian immediately comes over and gives me a big hug while I decide what strategy I am going to try with her tonight. Asian is NOT wearing the skirt I asked her to and instead has these little hot shorts on. I give her a hard time about that.
I end up in conversation with Capt Jack when Future rolls over and tells me I need to start gaming Asian or give her up as he wants to go after her. I go over to her and a makeout ensues. Game on yet again!
We spend the next hour all over each other. She has her hand in my pocket rubbing Lil Twitch when I get a text from Sinn: "dude if u wanna get laid push that bitch off. you're chasing her WAY too hard."
I text Sinn back: "She is not gonna do anything. A tease"
Why did I feel I should reject the advice of one of the world's best pick up artists? Because I had tried take-aways many times before with her and they didn't work. She keeps telling me how horny I make her, how wet she gets when she thinks of me, how I must be able to get any girl I want, etc. so I KNOW she is into me. In my mind, I think I am just going to have to wear this one down. There are exceptions.....they can't all be textbook pick ups.
Shortly afterwards, Future, another one of the best, gives me the same sound advice Sinn did. He told me I need to give her the sense of loss - active disinterest. That I was providing her with what she wanted (attention, sexual turn on) and there was no incentive for her to progress the relationship because she was already getting what she wanted from me. She was leading.
I always respect and appreciate constructive criticism - how else can you learn. I started thinking back to the take-aways I had done with her in the past and realized that they were fake take-aways. They were more of a tease than a real take-away that would generate a sense of loss. She could probably see right through them.
Thank you Future and Sinn for helping me out!
Someone once told me that the definition of insanity is going the same things over and over and expecting a different result. I realized that with my busy schedule, I wasn't going to put up with her teasing much longer and I might as well go for broke and let her know this was it.
I excuse myself to go to the bathroom and make a lazy lap around the bar. I end up opening a 3 set of girls near the mechanical bull and convince them to all get on the bull together. I watch the show and then head to the center bar where I see a friend of a friend. He is surrounded by some cuties so I start talking to them. One of them shows attraction so I flirt with her for a bit and then excuse myself to go catch up with my friends with a mental note to come back to her.
This is what I call a short set - spike attraction, leave, come back later. I do these often and they work for me. When you come back later, you are no longer a "random guy" or a creepy guy who will hound her all night long. You enter at a higher level in her eyes when you leave and return and it gives you less chance to screw things up by saying or doing something stupid while you are plowing through your routines.
I then go by the band and watch them play for a while before meandering back to our group.
Asian confronts me about why I left her for so long. I tell her I was talking to some girls I had just met. I then tell her that I realized that if I kept hanging around while she constantly teased me, I am always going to remain single and never find a girlfriend. She tries to kiss me again and I am unresponsive. She is hurt by my comment and gets stand-off-ish. I use this opportunity to take away even more so I back turn her, hang out with the boys and start pointing out hot girls to Capt Jack and Juice.
She eventually comes over and tells me she is not a tease and and starts kissing me again. It is about 1am and she mentions that she would like to get out of there. Her friend agrees that it is time to leave. I tell them bye and that I doubt I will ever see her again.
Once again, she is hurt by my comments and wants to know why I won't see her anymore. I tell her it is because she is all talk and tease and no action. I explain that although I like to tease, it is clear my teasing happens along a sexual seduction journey that will eventually lead somewhere. Her teasing is just ramping me up and abandoning me which is disrespectful. I am a busy guy and don't need to put up with it anymore.
She tells me that I am off base and that she just moves slow. I tell her that is fine but this is the end of the road for me. She asks me to leave with them. I decide I need to get friend's approval or I have no chance as they rode together again. I go over to Asian's friend and tell her that Asian is leaving with me, not her. Friend says that is fine but that she is coming to my house too but will stay on the couch while we "hang out" in the bedroom. Asian agrees.
We go outside and Asian hesitates. I confidentally escort her to my car with my hand on her back while she is looking over her shoulder longingly at her friend's car. I open the door and guide her in with my hand on her back and then shut the door.
We drive off with Friend following us. We get to my house and Friend pulls me aside. She tells me she is all for me showing Asian a good time but that I need to be good to her. Friend tells me she really likes me and can tell I am not like most other guys. She asks for a good TV show, a blanket, some water and that we don't keep her waiting longer than 2:30 am.
I can tell Asian is nervous so I pour us a drink and give her a tour of the place with some fluff talk. I show her the pictures I took, where I got some of the nick nacks I have in my place and talk about some of the places I have traveled. She gets more comfortable and we end up making out in the kitchen. Things then start to get hot and heavy. She undoes my pants and starts to give me yet another handjob. I have my hands all over her. I glance at the clock and find that it is 2:15. I look over and Friend is nodding off.
I tell Asian that I am not going to sleep with her (to avoid LMR) as we don't have nearly enough time and then grab her hand and drag her into my bedroom and shut the door. She pulls me to the bed and I lay on top of her. I hot makeout ensues while she pulls my pants and underwear down to my thighs and reinitiates the hand job.
I slowly work my way down, remove her shorts and underwear and then go down on her. She doesn't do anything to stop me or slow me down and actually helps me remove her panties. She starts moaning and then comes very quickly. She tells me she can tell I am very experienced as that is the best licking she has ever received.
She then rolls me over and starts to return the favor. She works Lil Twitch for a while but isn't quite using the pressure or technique I am used to with my ex. Altough she is good, programming is hard to break and I can tell I am going to be a VERY long time finishing and our clock is ticking so I pull her back up to me.
She is kissing on my chest as she reaches down, grabs Lil Twitch and gets ready to mount me. However, from where we are at, I can't reach my condoms. I adjust us on the bed so that I can grab at my condoms when there is a knock on the door from Friend telling us our time is up effectively killing the mood.
We dress and I walk them out. I give Friend a big hug and then make out one last time with Asian. She tells me she thinks I am amazing and can't wait to see me again so we can finish what she started. She gives me her number and asks me to call her. Finally!
Day 18 - Blue balled again
I get an email from Printer that the girl from http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/07/day-3-teaser-got-teased.html wants to meet up with me.
If you recall, she wouldn't give me her number after we did everything but have sex in the club. Since I had no way of contacting her, it was a good feeling to know that she had regrets about blowing me off.
Since I am trying to improve myself, I had analyzed my actions of the evening to determine where I went wrong. I chalked it up to being too eager, not teasing enough, not leading the situations, not doing enough take-aways and not running jealousy routines when she was playing hard to get. Sinn thought it was just because I escalated too much in the club which is a proven deterrent to hookup success.
Before I go out, my ex that I stayed the night with last night calls and wants me to come over again. We had a great time last night so I am tempted but I don't want to start dating her regularly again so I tell her I have to work late.
I grab a work out, shower and head out to meet up with the boys.
I show up at the club and Asian is immediately all over me. Instead of eagerly jumping all over her, I plan on playing the game right tonight. I take her away from her friend and our group of guys to another area of the club. We get into comfort talk for about 30 minutes. She is very sexually amped up to be with me and keeps rubbing on me and kissing me. I respond with small kisses in return but don't escalate.
After we get to know each other better, I bounce back to the boys with Asian in tow. Her and I are steadily getting more and more frisky but I am making sure not to escalate beyond making out this time. Several times she goes to undo my pants and I always stop her.
The night progresses with Asian and I all over each other. She would occasionally go dance with her friend and when she did, Printer and I would go work the crowd so that they saw us talking to girls when they came back.
Anytime Asian started taking that I was with her for granted, I would do a take-away and go talk to Capt Jack, Printer or Sinn depending on who was around.
One funny moment: I did a take-away and Asian left while I was talking to the boys. After a while, I decided to start working the room and stopped and talked to several girls. I then headed to the bathroom. The men's room in this club isn't a private one at all. It is big with a bunch of urinals and stalls and there was a long line of guys waiting to piss.
After I was in line for a bit, Asian comes marching into the men's room, yells out my name and says she was following me and watched me talk to a bunch of girls. I said "so" and just shrugged my shoulders. She grabs me for a big makeout right in the bathroom surrounded by guys. They were encouraging us to grab a stall to finish but she pulled away and left anyway.
The night goes on with Asian and I dancing, talking, drinking and making out. I was smart this time and drank nothing but water for the last hour and a half so I didn't have another cop incident I couldn't get out of.
Around 12:30, Capt Jack tells me to get her out of the club and back to my place or I am going to lose the deal. I try to get her to leave with me but she tells me she drove her friend and they want to stay until the bar closes. She swears she will hang out with me afterwards at Printer's house.
At 1:30, I get a booty call from a girl I haven't closed yet. Caller is a cutie and I definitely want to get down with that sometime however, I have Asian hanging all over me and don't want to blow this situation. I confirm again with Asian that we are all going to hang out after the club closes before reluctantly turning down the booty call.
Club closes and Asian can't find her friend. Asian drove so we go out to her vehicle and make out waiting for her friend to show. While in the car, Asian keeps trying to get my pants down. I am pretty confident she wouldn't have resisted but we are directly under a street light with the light shining in on us. She doesn't have tinted windows and I don't want to get arrested so I tell her to wait until later.
We finally call her friend and find out that she is in another vehicle with a guy. Her and the guy were making out earlier but now there is some drama ensuing. Asian and I go to the guy's vehicle, crawl in the back seat and continue making out and grinding on each other while the other two discuss whatever it is they are discussing.
Finally, I tell Asian I have to go and ask if she is coming with me. She tells me she has to get her friend back home but wants to see me later. It is now 3am and I have to work in the morning so I tell her anything more tonight is out of the question.
She asks for my number and I give it to her this time. She says she wants to hang out tomorrow night (Thursday) but I am non-commital as I already have a date lined up. I tell her to call me and we will figure it out.
I walk her and her friend back to their car and then start walking to mine. I see Sinn and Capt Jack who are making fun of me for failing to pull Asian again. I even got an "I told you so" from Capt Jack. Bastards! =)
I know I played the game by the text book this time. Comfort, take-aways, jealousy, teasing, amping her buying temperature without escalating too much, telling her what I would do to her if we were alone, etc. However, logistics, the bane of all PUAS, got me.
And here I was hoping to start August off right....
If you recall, she wouldn't give me her number after we did everything but have sex in the club. Since I had no way of contacting her, it was a good feeling to know that she had regrets about blowing me off.
Since I am trying to improve myself, I had analyzed my actions of the evening to determine where I went wrong. I chalked it up to being too eager, not teasing enough, not leading the situations, not doing enough take-aways and not running jealousy routines when she was playing hard to get. Sinn thought it was just because I escalated too much in the club which is a proven deterrent to hookup success.
Before I go out, my ex that I stayed the night with last night calls and wants me to come over again. We had a great time last night so I am tempted but I don't want to start dating her regularly again so I tell her I have to work late.
I grab a work out, shower and head out to meet up with the boys.
I show up at the club and Asian is immediately all over me. Instead of eagerly jumping all over her, I plan on playing the game right tonight. I take her away from her friend and our group of guys to another area of the club. We get into comfort talk for about 30 minutes. She is very sexually amped up to be with me and keeps rubbing on me and kissing me. I respond with small kisses in return but don't escalate.
After we get to know each other better, I bounce back to the boys with Asian in tow. Her and I are steadily getting more and more frisky but I am making sure not to escalate beyond making out this time. Several times she goes to undo my pants and I always stop her.
The night progresses with Asian and I all over each other. She would occasionally go dance with her friend and when she did, Printer and I would go work the crowd so that they saw us talking to girls when they came back.
Anytime Asian started taking that I was with her for granted, I would do a take-away and go talk to Capt Jack, Printer or Sinn depending on who was around.
One funny moment: I did a take-away and Asian left while I was talking to the boys. After a while, I decided to start working the room and stopped and talked to several girls. I then headed to the bathroom. The men's room in this club isn't a private one at all. It is big with a bunch of urinals and stalls and there was a long line of guys waiting to piss.
After I was in line for a bit, Asian comes marching into the men's room, yells out my name and says she was following me and watched me talk to a bunch of girls. I said "so" and just shrugged my shoulders. She grabs me for a big makeout right in the bathroom surrounded by guys. They were encouraging us to grab a stall to finish but she pulled away and left anyway.
The night goes on with Asian and I dancing, talking, drinking and making out. I was smart this time and drank nothing but water for the last hour and a half so I didn't have another cop incident I couldn't get out of.
Around 12:30, Capt Jack tells me to get her out of the club and back to my place or I am going to lose the deal. I try to get her to leave with me but she tells me she drove her friend and they want to stay until the bar closes. She swears she will hang out with me afterwards at Printer's house.
At 1:30, I get a booty call from a girl I haven't closed yet. Caller is a cutie and I definitely want to get down with that sometime however, I have Asian hanging all over me and don't want to blow this situation. I confirm again with Asian that we are all going to hang out after the club closes before reluctantly turning down the booty call.
Club closes and Asian can't find her friend. Asian drove so we go out to her vehicle and make out waiting for her friend to show. While in the car, Asian keeps trying to get my pants down. I am pretty confident she wouldn't have resisted but we are directly under a street light with the light shining in on us. She doesn't have tinted windows and I don't want to get arrested so I tell her to wait until later.
We finally call her friend and find out that she is in another vehicle with a guy. Her and the guy were making out earlier but now there is some drama ensuing. Asian and I go to the guy's vehicle, crawl in the back seat and continue making out and grinding on each other while the other two discuss whatever it is they are discussing.
Finally, I tell Asian I have to go and ask if she is coming with me. She tells me she has to get her friend back home but wants to see me later. It is now 3am and I have to work in the morning so I tell her anything more tonight is out of the question.
She asks for my number and I give it to her this time. She says she wants to hang out tomorrow night (Thursday) but I am non-commital as I already have a date lined up. I tell her to call me and we will figure it out.
I walk her and her friend back to their car and then start walking to mine. I see Sinn and Capt Jack who are making fun of me for failing to pull Asian again. I even got an "I told you so" from Capt Jack. Bastards! =)
I know I played the game by the text book this time. Comfort, take-aways, jealousy, teasing, amping her buying temperature without escalating too much, telling her what I would do to her if we were alone, etc. However, logistics, the bane of all PUAS, got me.
And here I was hoping to start August off right....
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